Guys, Is your IDEAL WOMAN based only on Physical attributes?

[AviatorTom]

Each of us guys has at least the concept of an ideal woman, the type of woman we'd really like to be with.

But we rarely find that woman.

Just wondering?

Is your ideal woman based only on what she looks like? Or maybe on other things like personality and intelligence?

Please tell us who your ideal woman is, and whether you've ever found her.

This question is prompted by a question by @OlderAndWiser...

Do you get aroused having sex with a partner who is not "your type"?

[KostasKouvalis]

No. Personality can always be worked on, but if she's stupid it's an immediate deal breaker. I have no patience for stupid people and wouldn't know what to talk about with them. There was a hot girl who worked with me. We got along great until I got fired, but she was so dumb. I could've hung out and had sex with her, but couldn't imagine having a relationship with her. Like one time she didn't even know what Quartz is, and I got so irritated.

There was another hot girl in my college that I had a crush on. She wasn't dumb, but she wasn't intelligent either. She would copy off me and I did her homework for her. And one time I told her there's a sport called "Handball" and she thought I was playing a joke on her🤦‍♂️ So yeah, even my standards for intelligence are very high. Even a PhD won't make my cock stand if she isn't well-rounded.

There is a hot girl on THIS website! I was SHOCKED and IMPRESSED that she knew some of the things she knew. Like THAT'S the kind of girl I need.

That being said, I wouldn't date a girl who's TOO smart either. I want her to be on the same level, but not smarter than me, or have a higher degree than me.

[OlderAndWiser]

Excellent question!

My ideal type includes several traits in addition to the physical attributes described in my recent post. And the non-physical attributes are far more important than her physical appearance.

Most importantly, she must be intelligent. That is not the same thing as educated. There are very intelligent women who never went to college. But having a degree is a plus. This one is a deal-breaker. You've seen that bumper sticker on pickup trucks that says "No fat chicks." My bumper sticker would say "No dumb chicks."

I also want a woman who is kind to other people. On a first date, I would watch how she interacted with the wait staff at the restaurant. She must be a gentle soul. I want a woman who embraces her femininity and is delighted to be a woman. And I have very little patience for a woman who is loud and brassy.

These traits are far more important than her having blonde hair or being petite.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[Tarifa]

In part. We would be lying if we said that looks don't matter. We all look for a partner that is as close as possible to the image we have in mind.

[ArrowheadSW]

I am attracted more to her mind and what her values are. Although physical attraction is also important, I put more weight on "who she is".

[Twodogs0525]

Initially, yes but longterm, there's way more than her physical attributes. A toxic personality can turn someone ugly real quick.

[Xawyx-2]

No, she also has to have certain type of personality.

She can be 10/10 in looks, but if she is passive/submissive/shy - she is not my type.

[Shiprex]

No, I have aways found really attractive women have something about them in their behaviour that is off putting

[DonaldDarko]

Pretty but also deep, she knows things. Quite and contemplative a loaner. Pixie cut a must.

[Iron_Man]

no it’s everything. The whole package has to come together

[msc545]

No, of course not. Who wants a moron with ideal physical attributes?

[AgentG111]

Absolutely a part of the attraction!

[Anonymous]

huge butt in tight pants.