Why do men still crave other women in happy, committed relationships?

[Anonymous]

How do men deal with that..

[fluffydevilxx]

Speaking only for myself? Attraction doesn’t switch off just because you’re in love. I can notice a beautiful woman the same way I notice a beautiful sunset, but noticing isn’t the same as wanting to chase it.

When I’m genuinely happy in a relationship, the craving isn’t for ‘someone else’ it is usually just my brain acknowledging that attractive people exist. The difference is that my heart already knows where it wants to be.

And if I’m flirting… I’d say this: the most dangerous woman isn’t the prettiest one in the room, it’s the one who can still make me forget to look around. 😉

[Chazmatazz269]

Contrary to popular myth, most men do not cheat.
I suspect evolutionary biology is the basis for the compulsion to do so. Very few primates are monogamous, and none of the greater apes are. Females in the wild do tend to remain more monogamous after bearing young due to the risk of infanticide by interloping males.
Human females actually kill their children far more often than males, and since there are laws and social constraints that prevent it as a practice, women are just as likely to cheat as men.

[HollyK21]

These men have most likely always been noncommittal, they just settle into a relationship out of comfort/convenience vs genuine love. They can’t fully commit because they will keep feeling unfulfilled in different areas, like emotional or physical needs, getting bored of the routine and wanting something new/exciting. It could even be about getting an ego boost, being reminded they “still got it” is validating.

[Nikki1989]

The biggest cheaters are married men. I know; all the men I work with are married, and the things that they say would disgust their wives. They are just hard-wired to cheat or at the very least to think about it.

[Anonymous]

Attraction to men doesn’t end once he meets someone. Men, unlike most women have the ability to still be attracted to other women w out having feelings for her. But you’ll never y destined this as you’re not a man. Maybe it’s biology. I mean if you think about it, pretty much all men are like this. It’s not like men got together, had a meeting and decided that this is how we should all act. I’ve been w my wife foe 18 years. She even acknowledges that I find other women attractive. I don’t go out of my way to make it obvious, she just understands these things. We have no issues. She k owes I’ve always liked Salma Hayek. A girl would be insane to think that her man doesn’t find other women attractive. No, men who are married aren’t the biggest cheaters.

[Anonymous]

That's easy. They don't!

You have to understand men are drawn to the female form. But when a man is truly in love with a woman an is in a relationship that is commited and happy it's not that other women stop being attractive. It's that the volume on him being attracted to them gets turned WAY DOWN. Those women don't stop being attractive he's just not drawn to them. Because the woman he loves has his heart.

If you don't believe this (and based on the wording of your question i'm guessing you don't), it's most likely because you've never actually been in a happy, loving commited relationship. This is more than just words hun.

[Asker]

I’m just asking because I had a connection with a guy who’s in a committed relationship and I knew nothing about it

[Opinion Owner]

Well clearly he's either not really comitted. Or that connection was really just on your end.

[Mark_Est]

Its basic biology and sexual strategy.

Men can and want to make as many suitable women as pregnant as they can. To pass on their genes.

While wome want a man to take care of her and the child, to pass on her genes.

We aren't the same.

Nor should any man play by the wishes of a woman.

However, only beta dudes lie and sneak around. Men are upfront and honest about their values and wants in life. A woman is free to make her choice.

[Anonymous]

Crave is a strong word. Ideally, I'd be with a person I feel that strongly about or doing whatever I could to get there. I might try and get in a relationship, but those feelings for someone else would eventually have to go away. Those feeling make it hard to put real effort towards someone else, especially if no one ever trys with you. If you are just talking about simple physical attraction, that is fleeting.

[Kelly6]

@HollyK21 Men are genetically made this way. Can't argue more

[HollyK21]

I hear ya Kelly😭

[Kelly6]

@HollyK21 wasn't aware that I replied you but.
Yes men, male are generally like this, I have witnessed lot of married men cheating too.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Because they are cheaters in their blood and genes!
They just want more, won't get enough from just one woman!

[Iron_Man]

It’s sexual like trying different ice cream flavors and it’s a new person they get bored with the girlfriend and they cheat or they are tired of always arguing. But that’s not right. What they’re doing

[Danny_dan92]

You asking why they crave other women while in a relationship or crave women who are in relationships?

[Asker]

While in a relationship

[Danny_dan92]

The same reason why women crave other men while in a relationship.

[jahaims]

Mature men don't lol. You are with immature men if they want others while in a relationship.

[413kim]

Want what they dont have

[canamlusciouslad73]

BOYS BEING BOYS !!!

[DirtyOldMan777]

because he's not happy.

[In_Trance]

They're clearly not happy and committed

[kinks1951]

Variety

[MasterKS]

variety.