I felt sexually harassed at a restaurant meeting—what can I do now and how do I safely rent a kitchen?

[Anonymous]

I met this man 41 and single at a grocery store. He was nice at first but turned into a jerk. I mention i was a baker and than he said his family owns a breakfast restaurant and i told him i was looking for a place to rent and to make pastries for. well we confirmed a time. well when i got there he told me he is running over a hour late and i could not wait because seafood cannot be out past 2 hours (which is odd because he should know that if he owns it) i went inside introduced myself and started to serve the food. well when he showed up he told me to meet me in my car and started to scold me and started to say sexual stuff and everyone was upset. i dont understand why they ate the food if they had no idea whats going on. seems like they were just using me for free food. honestly i would never work with someone who does that to someone i would kick them out or buy them out. he said i should have waited for him i was like no you told me everyone knew i was coming Friday and you were running too late behind. I was so scared i wanted to call the cops. The way he spoke to me i see why he is not married and his dates don’t move past the first date. he is a walking red flag. Then he started to talk about how much money he invested $20k why would you say that to someone you just met. He was suppose to show me the kitchen and never did but showed me a building they want to sublet (which most landlords don’t allow because my dad is a landlord. i am shook about the situation because i could have been hurt or killed. What other safer steps to take to get a kitchen rent out?

[Anonymous]

He is demonic. That's literally what it means to be demonic. Has nothing to do with horned creatures.

Psychology would say he has a huge "shadow". Or water down to "traumas and anxieties".

You can assess basal tone of arousal. How relaxed he seems. Often the most traumatized people act the nicest because their chronic anxiety makes them super careful not to worsen anything. But same anxiety poisons their actions.

Not every anxious person is gonna act evil as fuck but most people who are fooked in the head just like him have visible anxieties underneath the niceness.

[bowenw]

I'm sorry this happened to you. Thankfully he did not assault you.
I suggest you avoid dealing with random guys and try to visit established establishments and talk to the owners, especially if they are women as men may try to get you to make a deal that includes sex.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊
Please feel free to DM if you wish.

[Kassandra1994]

Consult a witch and made cast a spell on his ass that will make him regret what he did to you.

[Staximus]

You can rent out of kitchen that is not owned by a dirtbag