Is this sexual harassment/shall I report?

[Anonymous]

So I have been speaking to a guy and he keeps telling me to "go to his house", i keep refusing and he gets upset over me refusing... he once blocked me as i wasn't going over and he unblocked me after a few days saying he is "waiting for me to go over"

i once said i will not have sex if i do and he replied "why"

like he has no right to say this, shall i report him? is this sexual harassment?

Updates

3 mo

my question is shall i report him? what if he does something to someone else

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3 mo

Okay, so i go to his house and i refuse to have sex. will he accept that or rape me?

the fact that he is sexually harassing me, it's not worth the risk

[BoopBoopBeep]

Report him to whom? How old are you? No I mean really. He invited you over, you said no. Nobody has "done anything to you" you're a f'ing disgrace to women who actually HAVE had something done to them. "what if some other woman got trapped?" Who is trapped, muppet? Block him and log off. FFS what a society of cripples we've become.

[Asker]

if he's getting frustrated that im not going over to his place to have sex, ain't that dangerous? what if i did go to his place, are you saying that he wouldn't do anything?

[Asker]

what if i went over to his place and refused to have sex? are u sure he wouldn't force me?

[BoopBoopBeep]

No i'm saying your a grown ass adult take some accountability. You don't want to go, don't go. Boom problems solved. Everything isn't a crisis, stop being a professional victim.

[abc3643]

OK, does this "guy" work with you?

If not, then there's no sexual harassment in the legal sense; that occurs in the workplace or otherwise involves coworkers.

[Anonymous]

Block him. He clearly has other intentions than you. Don't entertain his bullshit and spend your energy on something else. he's not worth your time an energy.

[Asker]

why should i block him, i should also report him right? what is some other woman got trapped?

[spartan55]

@asker You aren't very bright are you?

[Opinion Owner]

What if what if. There are always what ifs. You draw conclusions on only this. No it ain't sexual harassment. But you can choose yourself to still spend energy on his texts or not. Report won't do anything tbh when this is the only evidence or texts you have.

[Opinion Owner]

You are 25-29 age range according to the profile. I hope you understand the difference between this and ACTUAL sexual harassment. You remind me of someone I knew. She was always like this. Claiming everyone was sexual harassing her or even raping her for nothing Or for only 1 little thing online.

[Asker]

so if i did end up going to his house to just hangout and no sex, would you say its safe to do so?
no intentions for sex, just to hangout?

Not safe

[Opinion Owner]

You clearly don't want to go to his house. Then don't go! It ain't that difficult right? Why keep asking? Stop with the victim mentality and the "what ifs". If you want to think it's sexual harassment so bad, then do your thing. I truly am surprised why you don't seem to understand this for someone your age.

[Opinion Owner]

I give up. Your not worth my time anymore
Do whatever you want because you don't seem mature enough to even understand what sexual harassment is or how to deal with human behavior

[007kingifrit]

sounds like you don't like the guy at all, why are you talking to him at all? also, describe him

[noohair]

Sounds like harassment. I would think about if you should just move on. Good luck.

[Jmmmfi4]

YOU BOTH SOUND WEIRD

[spartan55]

Why are you even entertaining a guy like that?

[Asker]

how the hell am i entertaining him? think before u say something

i didn't even say anything to him he's the one wanting to meet me

[spartan55]

'think before u say something'... yeah okay. You talk about communicating with him several times in your post. THAT is entertaining him... so stupid.

[Booklover_90]

Why not block him? Also, who is he to you?

[Asker]

some person online, shall i also report him? he seems a little dangerous to be saying things like that

[Booklover_90]

Online? Meaning a dating site? If so, please be careful. You don’t know who’s really behind the screen. Anyway, if you want to, sure.

[Zestyassmf1997]

It’s not harassment. You can just block him.

[tfan1]

Report him, Block him and lose him.

[CozyCoffin]

Block him. Problem solved.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, don't put up with that.