Is it normal he hides his new girlfriend but still stalks me and copies my style?

[Laineyys]

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We never dated, just had history. Now this guy hides his new girl but stalks my socials while she’s out here copying my entire style. Why is he so obsessed if we were never even together

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you’re full of yourself. Maybe he’s “hiding” her cause he wants to protect her from you. Maybe he’s like me, I don’t post about my girl online out of respect for her as well as her privacy. Maybe he “stalks” your so sick media cause he just likes your videos. I think it’s you who has an issue w all of this that you think is going on in your brain. When you say you two had a history I’m thinking friends with benefits, now you don’t like it cause he met someone. As for her “copying your style,” I doubt you came up w that style you say is yours. If people look hard enough they will find someone to reinforce their thoughts. If someone is always playing the victim they will always find something to reinforce that mentality that they are the victim.

[HollyK21]

This whole comment is so very well said. OP needs a reality check and I’m glad someone gave it to her.👏

[Opinion Owner]

@HollyK21 Thank you. But will she listen, that’s the real question. I’ve answered a lot of questions like this, mainly from women who are just looking for you to agree w them. If you don’t then you’re a misogynist. Most times it falls on deaf ears. Some men act the same, usually met w responses like be quite old man lol

[Masie]

I am not sure what you mean. There isn't any context to your post. Who is the guy to you? For example, he could be your best friend. If that were the case then yeah that is totally normal to still talk to him.

What do you mean by copy your style? The way you dress? The type of clothing? Your handwriting? The way you talk? What you like to do in your free time? You can see how this is all very confusing with so little to go off of.

[Laineyys]

He’s hiding his new girlfriend from me, even though we never actually dated—we just have a history. It’s reached a point where he’s constantly stalking my socials, and his girlfriend is now actively copying my entire style and aesthetic. Why hide the relationship but stay so obsessed with someone you didn't even date?

[DryGermanGuy]

That sounds like something only happening in your head… 🤷‍♂️

[bowenw]

He may be hoping there is still a possibility of dating you.

[Alex-Snow]

He sounds like a freak. Block him on socials and try to ignore the idiot

[el_scorpion]

Yes, it's possible, and it happens more often than people realize. Those behaviors can coexist, but they don't necessarily mean the same thing.

[Abbycado]

What? There is no explanation to your post.

[jazzy34]

Eww, creep. Block him.

[Anonymous]

Weird. Are you sure he has a girlfriend?

[canamlusciouslad73]

Some of us lads are strange !!!