Met a guy at a club and gave him my number—will he text me?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so I met this guy at a club. I told him I was 18, and he said he was 20, maybe 22. I'm not really sure. He held up two fingers when he said his age, so I think he was probably 22. At first, he told me I was too young. Then we ran into each other again, started dancing together, and eventually he kissed me. After a while, I gave him my number. He looked hesitant, but he took a picture of it, so I know he has it. I'm just wondering how long I should wait for him to text me. Do you think he's going to text me?

[SueShe]

A club IS the place where people go to meet others for the purpose of hooking up. You went there for that very purpose and so did he.

You even allowed him to kiss you and you gave him your number. Being in his prime age and knowing that he can have a free fornication with an 18 year old girl, you bet he will call you. It's not every day that you can get this kind of luck. It is like hitting the jackpot for him. Young, full of testosterone and a girl that jumps on him is enough to get you to be his body count number... (fill in the number here).

[Anonymous]

Chances are he will. But honestly probably just for a hookup. I’m not sure what brought me to this conclusion. Most men don’t go to clubs to meet their future girlfriend or wife. Maybe some do but I doubt it. That’s not to say it’s a serious percent chance of meeting someone at the club that leads to a serious relationship. As for how long before he messages you. Depends? Does he have another girl on the side? Is he in a relationship w someone right now?

[beenherebefore]

You shouldn't wait for a guy you just met in a random night out. If he texts you good if not is also not a big deal.

[slatyb]

Maybe, maybe not. Don't wait around, just keep living your life.

[Iron_Man]

How many days has it been now? Usually, there’s a 3 day rule in contacting somebody brand new but if it hits 7 days, you’re probably out of luck

[Asker]

It's been 4 days now

[Iron_Man]

That’s kind of late. If he hasn’t called you by day seven move on.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[Iron_Man]

Sure

[msc545]

He might or might not. There's nothing more you can do to make it happen.

[Nikki1989]

And does anyone here know that?

[In_Trance]

I guess you're going to find out