Why would a guy say we used to date if he never took me seriously?

[Anonymous]

[Nikki1989]

He’s claiming the connection because it benefits his image, ego, or narrative. Typical male.

[Asker]

I think they are stupid when they do it.

[Anonymous]

Probably because you did.

[Asker]

But how the way he treated me in the relationship that it wasn’t serious it was just a game.

[Opinion Owner]

Did he say he was a good boyfriend?

[Asker]

He didn’t say nothing but tell people we used to date.

[Opinion Owner]

You did. It just seems like it was a bad relationship, at least for you.

[Asker]

I’m asking why he bother telling anyone if the relationship sucked?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he was asked. It is the truth.

[Asker]

No he told them at his own will.

[Opinion Owner]

It could just be him explaining his history. It doesn't seem like he is as embarrassed as you.

[Asker]

Well I am because he treated me like crap and just made me look like a fool.