Can guys be clueless if you like them?

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Or mostly they know

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

In a way of speaking. It's not that guys are clueless so much as women are so subtle about showing interest that no one in a 5 mile radius knows she ever did ANYTHING.😂

And that is the whole point. Men do not like rejection, NOBODY DOES! But since guys are tasked with doing the approaching, at the very least women can make a CLEAR signal they're interested right? If only it were that simple.😂 Problem is 7 out of 10 (possibly more) women just like the ATTENTION of men approaching them. They will deliberately send false signals to approach them, let the guy come over and get all the way through his spiel grinning the whole time and soaking up the adulation only to tell him "sorry, i'm not interested".

Now, let's use a little common sense. How many times do you think this has to happen before the guy thinks twice about approaching? Now here's where women try to shame men into repeating this FOOLISH act, "he's insecure" she says. That's like telling a person holding a gun they're too scared to shoot themselves in the head. Only a fool is going to take that bait.

The REALITY is guys wise up. And both genders are pretty self absorbed in modern dating. The really funny part is even after you meet someone, start dating, you're most likely going to find out they don't know or care who you are. Only what you can do for them. And this goes for BOTH genders. And as soon as you stop doing whatever attracted you to them they'll lose interested. Because again, most of the population is selfish and self absorbed and suffers from main character syndrome where their life is essentially a movie STARRING them. And you are a character in that movie. And how much you please them will determine whether you're character stays in the movie or is written out of it.

Hope that helps. Happy hunting.👍🙂💯

slatyb · Accepted Answer

Absolutely they can. Even if you make your interest pretty obvious, there are guys who think you are out of your league and will assume that you would never want them. When I was in my 20's I had a stylist I saw about monthly. I liked her and she liked me but neither of us said anything. I assumed that I was too nerdy, and she assumed that I was too bright to be interested in her. I knew another pair who did the same. Neither said anything, the woman ended up dating someone else, then getting engaged and married. He finally said something after the engagement and she was really disappointed but went through with the wedding. I saw her some years later and she expressed some frustration with her marriage. She wanted to travel but her husband preferred to stay home. The shy guy would have been a great match for her.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Some men are just clueless, period. Read the anonymous opinions on this post.  Of course they can be clueless. You have to do the bleeding obvious for some to take any notice at all.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Love is a wonderful thing & love is blind as they say. If you like someone you should let them know.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, because women are the opposite of straight forward about it.

Half of them women why a guy doesn't know they like him, and the other half say something like "I can't even be friendly with guys without them thinking I'm interested in them".

bear34 · Answer

It’s a complicated situation. I usually prefer to be certain. I wouldn't assume a woman is interested in me just because of a smile; I tend to be more cautious about that sort of thing.

Anonymous · Answer

I definitely fall into that category. One girl I thought liked me, and I liked her too. My interest grew. Eventually, I started overthinking everything.

TheStaleMarshmellow · Answer

We just need clear consent. For obvious reasons.

WhitneySnow · Answer

They can be clueless

exitseven · Answer

I certainly could be clueless.

FrodoSkywalker007 · Answer

I'm clueless

dudeinohio · Answer

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