Why do guys get turned off if you talk to other guys on dating apps?

[Anonymous]

When most guys be talking to other girls anyway.

[Iron_Man]

if the conversation is going great and you agreed that you’re gonna meet in person why would you be talking to other guys? That makes a guy feel uneasy not comfortable with you knowing that he has to try to compete with five other guys, especially when you’re gonna be meeting soon, how would you like it? Believe me women don’t like that either for guys to be talking to other girls when you’re gonna be meeting. it’s like you’re looking for the best opportunity and if you find it, then you’re gonna let him go but as soon as you fail in your other opportunity, you’re gonna be right back in his lap not a good idea that’s why I don’t like dating apps they’re not trustworthy the women and a bunch of gold diggers. People that do that sound like players that talk to other guys when they like another guy

[OneViewpoint]

I don't know. I just assume that if I'm on a dating app interacting with a bunch of women, those women are interacting with a bunch of guys. Isn't that the purpose of a dating app? Anything else is delusional.

[Asker]

I don’t think it’s wrong unless you already made it official with one another in an agreement.

[Agape93]

They expect exclusivity in others but they'd be chatting up others too if they could

[Asker]

They do chat up others which nothing wrong with it they be acting like you both are official when nobody had agreed to be girlfriend and boyfriend yet.

[Agape93]

Exactly. They think its harmless when they do it, but automatically assume you're fucking every dude you talk to and it grosses them out. God forbid they hold equal standards.

[exitseven]

Really? I would dump you so fast it would make your head spin if you disrespected me like that.

[Asker]

You said it was a relationship?

[Nikki1989]

They are insecure, like most men, it seems.

[In_Trance]

For the same reason you would get turned off if he was talking to other girls

[Asker]

I don’t unless he said that we were in a relationship.

[In_Trance]

There is something to be said about exclusivity whether you're in a relationship or not.
That said, you can play it off that he's talking to other girls but you're the one who's wrong. You want options.
He doesn't.

[Anonymous]

They think they own you

[Opinion Owner]

They want all their options open for themselves but then don't want you having better options than them

[Asker]

I guess don’t tell them like they don’t tell you they don’t care about you knowing

[Asker]

Not really wrong thing to do until both agree with being official anyway.