Is it normal to text less while unwinding at night in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

ok so most people don't text much in the day cause of work which leaves the night to catch up and stuff.

this case is the opposite though. we text in the day because we have a bit of time on our hands. then in the evening we stop to go do our own thing. i usually wait for him to reach out again and at first he would text me when he's back home/done showering. then we would catch up a bit and go do our own thing to unwind again for the night.

i don't know when it stopped but then he would only reach out around 10pm+ which would leave us with not much time to catch up and he would already be watching shows which means he's not really focused.

what are guys thoughts on texting while unwinding? i know it's doable and i know i'm a bit much for feeling like he doesn't really focus on me when he's unwinding so i'd rather just leave him be.

[Anonymous]

He could just be a bad texter. I hate having conversations over text. I prefer calling with texts as a supplement. However, I would focre myself to participate for the right girl. There are certainly times at night when I'm not paying attention to my phone.

[midnightmoon05]

Have you ask him?

are you two boyfriend girlfriend? Dating? Met yet? How many times? DL?

if you answer these questions… I can help.

[Nikki1989]

No, I actually talk to people. Imagine that!

[Abbycado]

Yep, that is normal. Happens between me and my boyfriend just like how you describe.

[LiamS95]

I don't know about when in a relationship but I have a couple female friends that often text about the time I've just gotten into bed for the night and I enjoy the chat.

[Anonymous]

I do all that while I'm still in bed first thing in the morning.

[Anonymous]

I would do it more then when not busy

[i_am_back]

Red flag