What do men act like they don’t care about but secretly really do?

[InThe6ix]

[RavVid]

Girlfriend/wife shutting up shop. It is not so secret whilst she is shutting up shop but afterwards it becomes a more perfunctionary complaint.

That is a not so common view perhaps. But after a time she becomes as much of sex object as your sister is after a lot of 'not tonights'. She transmogrifies into a lump on the couch you walk around. Probably packs on weight about the same time to discourage sexual desire.

Due to all this we do lose sexual desire for her and our complaint becomes perfunctionary.

Our real internal complaint becomes that she is stopping us from having sex with women that do want sex.

The question should be in inverse and that's the one that needed answering.

[InThe6ix]

I do believe in those situations there could be a number of things going on but what they all come down to in the end is there is a lot that isn't being communicated at all.
Weather it's the fact he isn't helping out at all around the house or maybe with the kids so the resentment and being worn out has got to her.
Maybe it's the fact he's made her in some way feel undesirable. Maybe in general she has mentally compared herself and is not feeling as confident in herself, and needs help to feel wanted and desired again.
Yes these are things they should communicate, but in sometimes for what-ever other reasons that's easier said than done.

[Anonymous]

Body count. A lot of women will shame men for not wanting to be w a girl who has slept w a lot of men. But it’s preference that men tend to get shamed for. So as a man you really don’t express those preferences because most likely women won’t give you the time of day. But for a major majority of men, it matters.

[NathanDavis]

maybe... they don't think they have a chance, so, they don't bother with it... who knows

[InThe6ix]

You mean maybe they act like their not interested when they are, cause they think there's no chance kinda thing?

[NathanDavis]

yes... so, it's kinda pointless from their point of view, or belief...

[Billlewis]

I think most guys are, at least to some degree, turned on by pretty feet, but are embarrassed to admit it. The amount of money women spend on their feet, shoes and anklets, etc seem to confirm this.

[bowenw]

Felling needed and useful.

[jahaims]

That's just a red flag to avoid

[wkhan_87]

Wealth

[Anonymous]

About what