Guys, is it ok if your girlfriend doesn't have any social media or post any pictures, would you find her any less desirable than if she did?

[Tigress1039]

[zagor]

Much more desirable than if she did.

[Pterodon]

Don’t give a fuck about social media

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for the world around us it’s a connected world & unfortunately so many people have gotten lost in that world & forgot what it is really like to connect with people offline.

If I had a girlfriend that didn’t have any social media or post any pictures I wouldn’t find her less desirable I would find her MORE DESIRABLE!

[JHNS98]

The girl I'm seeing now effectively only has Discord and LinkedIn, though whether either is "proper" social media depends on your own definition. And besides, just having social media doesn't mean you have to use it to seek attention.

• I have Facebook, but only post in groups and sometimes interact with pages and reels
• I have Instagram and TikTok, but only consume content and interact with posts/reels
• I even have Kik for whatever reason, but don't actually use it

I said I was "seeing" someone, but we're not actually dating, just casually hanging out playing board games together while I escape social tension from another environment.

[Anonymous]

This matters moral to women in my experience. They tend to want a man who has “value.” They see him as socially awkward if he doesn’t have people follow g him, if he doesn’t have have status something is wrong w him. Men would prefer a girl who doesn’t have people follow g her on social media. Men tend to like their privacy. We don’t want all that added attention of being posted on her social media. Women seem validation through attention. I would say she would be more attractive if she didn’t have social media.

[Lionman95]

no a woman´s desirability isn´t determined by her social media activity but by the way she treats herself and others. It could even make her desirable if I got to see that she values personal presence and activity with people that are important to her more than posting it. Most of the best memories I made with friends where in places where we didn´t have a phone in our hands.

[stevenkelly]

Honestly, I don't think so. Having no social media wouldn't make me find her less desirable. If anything, I’d probably appreciate the privacy. What matters to me is how she treats me and the connection we have, not how much of her life she posts online.

[Finchie40]

I’d actually would find her more desirable , that she isn’t seeking attention on social media . A few of my friends’ are no longer on social media and they claim it’s the best thing they did for themselves, because their head isn’t bombarded with nonsense and the world around them is a much better place. I even considered getting off of social media as well , but unfortunately I use it but I try not to invest too much of my time into it anymore.

[SamIam96]

Social media presence is only one dimension of a personality. For me, less is more. So, to answer your question. If she doesn't maintain a presence on social media, it makes her more desirable*.

* With a note of caution. Is she hiding something?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

There's social media and social media, if she was using social media as a vanity gallery then I strongly doubt we would have matched in the first place.

Now if she was using it to chat about random topics and post random stuff, then she would be just like me or any girl I've been with

[CuriousTenya]

Completely fine. I myself stopped using facebook, then Instagram, then reddit.. Don't have many pics either. Hell, maybe her being online less than more is even better.

Whether she does have the facebooks, tiktoks, or not is no problem to me (well, unless she's addicted, and it eats her days).

[LOTSOFWEIRDQUESTIONS]

Personally, I think it is fine. I don't think I would find her less desirable than if she did.

[Lliam]

I would find her more desirable if she didn't. It might be an indication that she had a brain in her head.

[OneViewpoint]

Yes! Lack of social media is a huge indicator of a healthy adult personality in my opinion.

[236color]

It's fine with me, in fact a bit of a positive.

[EmmaMary]

Surely this must be every man's hope, wish and desire.

[Billlewis]

No, I'd find her compatible with my own tastes.

[Nikki1989]

Insecure men would prefer it that way. The rest are indifferent.

[DonaldDarko]

Probably more so because she's wise not to be posting her photo online.

[AviatorTom]

Yes, and No, to the two questions in the posted question

[slatyb]

Of course it's ok. That's a really strange thing to care about.

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t think most guys would care that much

[msc545]

Would be better if she doesn't, but if she has at least a moderate amount, that's okay too. Her whole life is devoted to this, and she can continue doing that without me.

[FunkyMonkee]

Fine with me! Why should I care? I'd probably be more pleased if she didn't!!

[Anonymous]

Yes. I really don't either. If anything, it would make her more attractive.

[RFC1872]

This one goes two ways. Either she is a really good girl, or a really bad one.

[Darkest-Knight]

Social media doesn't mean anything when it comes to a partner.

[Lynx122]

No totally fine.

[NathanDavis]

I don't have it myself

[DryGermanGuy]

Nice, she is not a lemming! 👏👏👏

[Spencer10]

I would consider this a plus

[RavVid]

I don't so no, I would think more of her for not.

[MrChinaski]

Social media is of negative value.

[rgb008]

I believe that is what most men want

[Joshydavid25]

Thats actually preferable..

[Drumlin2001]

Wouldn't bother me at all

[glennos89]

She would be more desirable not less!

[bowenw]

It's irrelevant.

[AngryCarl3]

Actually I'd prefer it.

[loveslongnails]

I'd find her MORE desirable.

[genericname85]

I'd actually find that more desirable.

[Staximus]

It would be a relief

[samael_kmarty]

That's the dream girl for me

[AgentG111]

Nope not at all. Sounds good to me.

[In_Trance]

I would prefer it that way

[Anonymous]

Probably the opposite.

[Anonymous]

That's a good thing.

[okmokmokmokm]

I would like that way more then if she did

[asmith356]

Social media is unhealthy for anyone.

[doren680]

Umm maybe i mean honesty and loyalty

[Saman_79]

I find this as a good thing.♥

[Chayce]

Wouldn't care

[dudeinohio]

Its fine

[RedInnocent69]

Nope

[fish5505_87]

Umm, no!

[radiomechanic]

not at all