Why do handsome guys seem to ignore nerdy-looking women like me?

[missindiana14]

Like all my life I've been a nerdy looking woman I wear glasses, wear sweatpants and big shirts and have my hair in a bun most of the time. Never had a handsome guy look at me even when Im dressed up. 👗

[236color]

I'm not a good looking guy, I'm bald, short and overweight. The cheerleaders didn't pay attention to me either. The handsome guys can get the cheerleaders attention so they do. The pimply faced incels in their mom's basement complain that the cheerleaders won't pay attention to them either. Yes, fat ugly men end up marrying beautiful women, IF they're rich. Somehow people want to deny there are dating leagues, but there ARE.

[bowenw]

I suggest you try to spend time at places where it’s likely to meet men and then dress accordingly and how most women do there. Don’t hesitate to approach men instead of waiting for them to fall into your lap.

[glennos89]

Probably because you dont take care of yourself like most woman do. Wearing your hair in a bun ain't the most attractive way presenting yourself. Guys like good looking woman so maybe you should try presenting yourself in a different way

[EmmaMary]

Try smartening yourself up, change your style of clothes, change your hairstyle, try wearing some makeup etc. etc.

[DryGermanGuy]

Maybe your version of being dressed-up isn't really dressed-up in absolute terms.

[MannMitAntworten]

It could be less about your appearance and more about what you give off. A do not approach me feel sort of thing.

[CaptainSmartass]

Maybe you could try dressing more presentably. But I will need to see pictures to see what you look like.

Simples...

[NathanDavis]

I like both looks... and more

[jahaims]

Attractive people want other attractive people