How can I cope with unwanted comments about my eyes?

[Juisooeek]

People comment on my eyes

Its either family or dudes at work. They think i want them/someting from they ass… or they say i got bootiful big eyes OR prominent ones.
Its making me self conscious. I prefered not knowing about how i look to others and its extra weird since often NARCISSIST makes comments. Why can't good people comment instead if anyone?

[DishLady]

You can't control what people do or say, you can only learn to manage your processing of the comments. When someone does that to me I just say "thanks" with a little smile, or blow it off with a little wave. Even if it bugs me to hear it -- or just seems like something very out of the blue -- I know the person saying it is trying to say something positive about me. Is it awkward? Yes. But some human communication standards will always be a little awkward. That's life.

[Interstate]

You tell your family you want it to stop, and you tell your supervisor so they can properly deal with it. If you engage on your own, and it goes bad, you become the bad guy and get into trouble for it. At least if a supervisor does it, they can document it, which will affect the futures of the tormentors.

[Juisooeek]

My family is narcissistic if i say dont do it they will purposefully do it

[Juisooeek]

But thanks

[Interstate]

Then you stay away from them.

[Juisooeek]

Its my parent but yes i am trying to stay away

[Interstate]

You have me curious what your eyes look like.

[Juisooeek]

Reported creep

[spartan55]

Give me a F in break...🙄

[bowenw]

Try to ignore them and not react if they seem to enjoy getting a reaction out of you.

[spartan55]

Yeah it must suck getting all those compliments.

[Iron_Man]

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