Many guys told me they felt nervous when talking to me. When i was younger i thought its normal with young guys, but even when i get older i hear it even more. Is it just normal at any age?
Is it normal for guys to feel nervous meeting a girl at any age?
Not sure if it’s normal or not , but yes it does happen amongst a lot of people including girls’ at any age to be shy and nervous around someone they like or attracted to , it stems down to their own self esteem and confidence within themselves on whether they accept themselves for who they are or they don’t accept themselves for who they are. Unfortunately a lot of people are their own worst enemy when it comes to being attracted to someone else , they sometimes feel they aren’t good enough and fear rejection , rejection sucks , but it isn’t the end of the world , but some people act like it is 😂 and become nervous when the person they like is actually giving them attention. And automatically assume that person isn’t going to like them back the same way. So they get shy and nervous immediately and don’t know what to say. I use to be shy when I was younger , but after my experiences with girls’ my shyness pretty much went away , and I learned to accept myself for who I am. Overall beauty comes from the eye of the beholder , so not everyone is going to like you or dislike you , but you will never know unless you try. I choose to try when I see a beautiful girl that catches my eye because I rather have an answer instead of no answer at all is how I look at it. But unfortunately not everyone is like that. because they fear rejection
I have my first official date tomorrow... kind of... depending how you count these things. I can't say nervous is one of the things I'm feeling. At my age, I don't need anything from anyone; I don't think she does either. Curiosity I am feeling.
It's very normal, although you won't always be able to figure it out. Some guys are pretty good at hiding this. Others not so much. I think when people meet each other and there's a lot of potential for romance that initially, there's also quite a bit of anxiety. This is true for women as well as men.
It's just that people who don't get much attention or did on past that shapes their behaviour. For people who got lots of attention in their young age won't be that nervous and demand more attention.
I rarely feel nervous meeting anyone for the first time but when I was in my teens I wasn't as confident as I am now do I was more on the nervous side then.
I’ve never experienced anything like that; it’s a matter of self confidence. I’m a very relaxed person when I talk to a woman, I’m both warm and serious.
Age has nothing to do with it, confidence and experience do. A lot of guys put attractive, curvy women on a pedestal and get into their own heads. But once a guy has enough experience with women, that nervousness fades.
When men approach women and the women are not attracted to the man, they sometimes accuse him of harassment or sexually inappropriate behavior of some sort which can get the man arrested and sometimes does. Because of this sort of thing and the number of false accusations that women tend to make, men want to have almost nothing to do with women anymore. Approaching women is therefore pretty much a losing proposition for most men. Very few men meet the standards but women expect now.
And men chase goals, not women. A woman who likes you comes up to you. The rest are a waste of time. And women know that they offer nothing, so you running after them like a simp will of course turn them off even more.
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Not sure if it’s normal or not , but yes it does happen amongst a lot of people including girls’ at any age to be shy and nervous around someone they like or attracted to , it stems down to their own self esteem and confidence within themselves on whether they accept themselves for who they are or they don’t accept themselves for who they are. Unfortunately a lot of people are their own worst enemy when it comes to being attracted to someone else , they sometimes feel they aren’t good enough and fear rejection , rejection sucks , but it isn’t the end of the world , but some people act like it is 😂 and become nervous when the person they like is actually giving them attention. And automatically assume that person isn’t going to like them back the same way. So they get shy and nervous immediately and don’t know what to say. I use to be shy when I was younger , but after my experiences with girls’ my shyness pretty much went away , and I learned to accept myself for who I am. Overall beauty comes from the eye of the beholder , so not everyone is going to like you or dislike you , but you will never know unless you try. I choose to try when I see a beautiful girl that catches my eye because I rather have an answer instead of no answer at all is how I look at it. But unfortunately not everyone is like that. because they fear rejection
I have my first official date tomorrow... kind of... depending how you count these things. I can't say nervous is one of the things I'm feeling. At my age, I don't need anything from anyone; I don't think she does either. Curiosity I am feeling.
It's very normal, although you won't always be able to figure it out. Some guys are pretty good at hiding this. Others not so much. I think when people meet each other and there's a lot of potential for romance that initially, there's also quite a bit of anxiety. This is true for women as well as men.
Personaly i never felt nervous when talking to a man, rather excited. But we are all different i guess
It's easy to confuse anxiety and excitement. That being said, I'm glad you've had a good experience with this.
Some people feel nervous and it doesn’t depend on the age..
I usually try to make them more comfortable by talking or joking about something..
It's just that people who don't get much attention or did on past that shapes their behaviour.
For people who got lots of attention in their young age won't be that nervous and demand more attention.
Everyone wants to make that good first impression. So that first meet can be a little stressful. You want to be perfect (and none of us are).
It decreases with age/experience. But if a guy is really smitten by a girl, welll... 😍🫣🤷♂️
I guess but be careful about assuming everyone's head over heels about you
I used to be scared to death to meet girls when I was younger. I got over it somewhat and now that I am married it does not bother me
I thought you were about to say 'now that I am married I am scared to death meeting just one girl, over and over again'.
Strong women don't intimidate me. Respectworthy women do.
Men dont get nervous meeting women, boys do. Betas do.
Mark, that's a bit extreme. I think you're red pill showing a little bit.
If she's very attractive or if you have a crush on her, then yes.
I rarely feel nervous meeting anyone for the first time but when I was in my teens I wasn't as confident as I am now do I was more on the nervous side then.
it's common enough. Some of us are over it, but it took me a long time.
If we think she is beautiful, We Become Nervous, Otherwise we don't care
I’ve never experienced anything like that; it’s a matter of self confidence. I’m a very relaxed person when I talk to a woman, I’m both warm and serious.
Yes, if a guy is throwing it all out on the line for a woman he likes, he's nervous.
As he gets older he does learn to protect himself against rejection, but he is still nervous.
It is normal if they have intentions to get to know her romantically
Age has nothing to do with it, confidence and experience do. A lot of guys put attractive, curvy women on a pedestal and get into their own heads. But once a guy has enough experience with women, that nervousness fades.
Yes, of course because they wanna be with the girl and there’s a lot of pressure to perform and be successful in front of her
Most of the time it's because they're interested in you. They want you to like them and are worried about giving you a bad first impression.
Meeting new people is always an anxious experience.
Absolutely you never know what is going to happen.
With some guys yes. They're nervous cause your gorgeous. Do you ever ask them why they are nervous I'm curious to know what their response was.
Absolutely these days
Approaching is illegal here which has only made the problem worse
What? How could it possibly be illegal? 🤣
When men approach women and the women are not attracted to the man, they sometimes accuse him of harassment or sexually inappropriate behavior of some sort which can get the man arrested and sometimes does. Because of this sort of thing and the number of false accusations that women tend to make, men want to have almost nothing to do with women anymore. Approaching women is therefore pretty much a losing proposition for most men. Very few men meet the standards but women expect now.
It's exactly as msc545 said
Its only sexual harassment if you are ugly.
And men chase goals, not women. A woman who likes you comes up to you. The rest are a waste of time. And women know that they offer nothing, so you running after them like a simp will of course turn them off even more.
Exactly why I never approached but I am far too busy these days to date between working and dying
Some guys do, some guys don't. No different than women when they talk to a guy
I am sure talking to a woman as good looking as you many many men are nervous.
Just chu, girl.
Only if they’re inexperienced and shy
For some guys, yes. For others, no.
Yes, because of fear of rejection.
"When i was younger...".😆
Not for me it isn't
Normal
It’s normal
Yes it is
I find it scary! 😱
oh heck yes