Why do men of color approach me while white men never seem interested?

[Lolly-pop]

So I’m a very attractive woman according to those around me I’m white 5’4 skinny with a cups and have dirty blonde hair and for my entire life a white man has never even as much as flirted with me. Basically if a man is lighter than a brown paper bag then he’d show no interest at all. I’ve only been approached by AA and Latino men.

I’m in a very white area and have been for my entire life which makes this even more strange to me. I’m very opinionated and educated which I know deters many men l but they’ve never even approached me at like the store when they can’t tell my personality.

I want to make clear I don’t mind dating poc men they’re very attractive but I also want to date someone with the same culture as me. I would just really like to know what about me could be drawing in poc men and/or deterring white men.

[texasgirl012]

Well if you're white and pretty and its Blacks approaching you, and they are hung too, then you must be super attractive. They only really approach the hotter white girls because of all the opportunities they get. You probably have some curves you don't realize, or the way you hold your body, or something that seems like you are really good in bed. I can't speak for other PoC but that's how a lot of the more forward Blacks are, and I love it. It's like they filter for me based on how I look, even when I'm not dressing slutty for them. They can kind of tell anyway even if I didn't look at them, though I do that all the time too. Take it as a compliment. "Same culture" might be good for a relationship but it isn't needed for other things. Besides, a lot of Blacks especailly those who are endowed are pretty well cultured. It's not like one culture is better than another, and I appreciate you didn't say that.

[capriVib]

Hard to give an exact diagnosis with just this info. Guys definitely have a thing for instantly falling for someone who looks different purely based on appearance. Maybe you're not very social or don't offer much besides looks, but statistics show people mostly marry within their own ethnic groups anyway, assortative mating and all, you just get along better. You'll find someone, you're only 19.

[AgentG111]

Boys will be boys. Men may not approach you based on the fact you may look very young or they don't believe you to be over a certain age.

[FreyaRed]

Glad i'm living in 99,9% white country. lol

[Iron_Man]

is that you in your profile picture?

[Lolly-pop]

U mean the clown baby? No it’s my friend lol if u mean the other one I just had that was my favourite model but we do look kinda similar she’s prettier tho obviously bc she’s a top model

[Iron_Man]

I didn’t see your other pictures

[leviopperman]

are you thick or fat?

[leviopperman]

you must either be ugly or fat. black men like easy

[Lolly-pop]

Uhm no I’m naturally skinny as I said with a cups so not curvy at all. I’ve also been approached by modelling agency’s multiple times in my life. I’d appreciate if you weren’t sexist and racist when answering my questing thanks

[leviopperman]

haha nice try uggo. 5'4" is way too short to model

[Anonymous]

You are 5’4 skinny with a cups.

[Anonymous]

Black men like a certain look

[Knotty_ducker19]

I'm not sure 🤔