I've been described as pushy.. 1) What does that mean? 2) How do I overcome it? or trun it into a postive?

[Anonymous]

the question is above...

Just various girls have described me as pushy and I'm not sure what it means.so I'm trying to better myself

[Freetobe007]

It may mean that you're too bold and forward. This is a huge turn off. I was dating a wonderful guy with an amazing body and a killer smile who's training to run in the Olympics! There's no doubt in my mind that he will make it. Yet because he's so pushy and in my face about kissing and having a relationship, I have gradually become completely turned off and annoyed by him. Being too pushy when it comes to relationships and sex can make any girl disappear. I mean, look at my situation. I have the chance to date the type of guy girls would dream of dating, but because he's so pushy and in my face, I can't help but feel very turned off by him.

[Asker]

Not to be rude but I am trying to find out what pushy is but you are using it in your example..lol describe a example of one being pushy and a alternative for the same situation without being pushy please... Thanks for your answer

[Freetobe007]

oh, sorry lol An example of being pushy is continuously hinting a lot towards starting a relationship or having sex with someone. Basically, if a guy is just always in your face about having sex or a relationship, constantly bringing it up and talking about it non-stop. It can really come off as pushy if the girl hasn't known the guy long enough to even decide what she wants him to be in her life. An alternative is to take things slow and stop rushing into things.

[Asker]

ok thanks :)

[cobra2lucky]

that's what the girl doesn't want to do

[pr3ttybr0wn]

it means your overbearing and too pushy about what you want and don't notice/care/pay attention to what the other person wants. its not all about u

[Anonymous]

it means you can't take no for an answer. learn to take no