Why are girls so easy these days?

[Anonymous]

I feel like girls are so easy these days. From what I've seen girls are just...def not how they were in the past. I'm not saying all of them are I'm definitely not like that. I feel like boys don't make an effort anymore because girls make it so easy for them. I'm not saying girls should all be stuck up but at least not make out with any guy who shows even the slightest interest in you. I feel like some girls even feel pressured into being like the slutty girls just to get a guy because who would guys rather talk to the one that won't make out with them or the one that they don't even have to ask and just does it. Do you all agree that girls have become too easy? Why do you think this is? Guys how do you think a girl that isn't as loose should behave to be able to get a guy's attention without having to hook up with them?

[Anonymous]

I hope I can find one that's not. Nothing turns me off quicker

I read an article that mentioned that more college aged girls had sex than their male counterparts. It suggested that the majority of girls were going for the minority of guys. Many girls would jump to sex to keep these guys, but some weren't quite ready to get to that point yet. They felt that it was necessary to get a relationships and will continue doing it. I found that kind of interesting.

[Asker]

That is really interesting and sad at the same time. Makes you wonder when it all changed and what brought upon this huge change because I definitely don't remember girls always acting like this.

[Anonymous]

What is love with most of us? When we say we love somebody, what do we mean? We mean we possess that person. From that possession arises jealousy, because if I lose him or her what happens? I feel empty, lost; therefore I legalize possession; I hold him or her. From holding, possessing that person, there is jealousy, there is fear and all the innumerable conflicts that arise from possession. Surely such possession is not love, is it?

[chocktachick]

I don't even both with most girls these days. Most girls are silly and weak minded and the wrong kind of men know how to pray on these girls. It should not be a badge of pride how many guys you have blown or how many shots someone has licked off your stomach. Think with your brain, not your clit.

[VL462]

Well said.

[VL462]

Men use these brainless girls for sex only. Lots of assholes here will defend these girls and -themselves so that they continue to get non-commital, non-consequential, free sex. That simple.

[JackBlastem]

If you act a hoe, you get the stick.

BUT ANYWAY Its got to do with girls psyching themselves out as far as self esteem goes. I know girls that have the most amazing qualities that there is no guy worthy of them. But they think sh*t of themselves for absolutely no reason. Suck it the hell up. As far as what I look for. If you have no class your not worth my time. Sleeping with girls is to easy. I want a girl with some substance not easily removed pants.

[Asker]

So then why do guys decide to just sleep with girls even though they know these girls they are messing around with are slutty. Do you think men posses a lack of self control? Why do you think women have such problems with self-esteem do you think it can be traced back to a particular source or do you just think it's women being women? How do you help these girls that you think have so much to offer yet lack confidence in themselves?

[Anonymous]

well I haven't found girls easy these day's. I find a lot hard to pull. I think girls allow themselves to be taken advantage of. I would love to find girl that can stay with for a long time and marry her and have kids with her. I would certainly make an effort with my girlfriend, if I can find that I like and likes me, and has the same moral values as I have.

[Opinion Owner]

i think both genders today, have let their standards go, and can't be bothered to try when things get hard. they can't stand thought of staying with someone for a long time. I don't think most people don't know what love means. they just say cause they think it.

[Asker]

Do you think people will ever regain their standards? Why do you think a lot of girls are hard to pull yet at the same time allow themselves to get taken advantage of? Is that not a bit contradictory? I do agree with you that many people today aren't sure of what love really is. Nothing makes me more upset than to see a guy who is with his girlfriend (clearly with pda) not be able to take his eyes off of me or some other girl around him...disgusting.

[Anonymous]

I think it's because we're all love starved, and once we latch on to another the fear of letting them go drives us to do almost anything to make sure they stay. And for guys especially, the nookie is a potent magnet.

[Asker]

lol "nookie". Do you think it was always like this? If not what changed? I feel like things have become worse in this day and age.

[mmike0]

why should it be hard? I personally don't like people paying games so I would just move on. it should be natural

[Asker]

What is your view of "natural" and playing games? I don't mean for things to be hard but people shouldn't make themselves too easy. I mean it's like having an urge for something and never practicing self-control when is it enough when do we cross the border from being human beings to losing that self control and behaving like animals.

[mmike0]

Whats easy? Sex on the first date? I view natural as the uninterrupted flowing of life. Essentially letting life take its course.Self control is perspective to oneself. I think you miss the important word in self control, "self". Who are we to define someone else's "self" control. For example, just because you or I think 2 scoops of ice cream is enough doesn't constitute it being enough for others. Hence "self" control is perspective. Oh yeah we are animals. Taken Biology?

[Anonymous]

Where are you from? I want to live in that magical place where women don't play hard to get and actually go for what they want. Send me a private message because I don't want every guy to know where that place of girls who like to have fun is.

[moviedude714]

why do we have to make things hard?