What is your preference of Sex Appeal on the opposite gender?

[Phoenix1991]

I thought I had an idea of what is sex appeal BUT then again I don't apparently after talking with a friend so I was curious what it is exactly.

Some women claim its the physique of the guy, others claim its his fashion statement, others feel its features like facial hair, Tall, broad shoulders,etc. Some even said all of the above.

So Girls : What makes a guy sex appeal in your opinion and your preference. Please I recommend you to use the anonymous option.

Guys : What defines a woman's sex appeal and what is your preference?

[Shabambam]

A guy's sex appeal has anything and everything to do with his confidence. A really confident (but not cocky) moderately attractive guy could get the girl of his dreams by just having good composure, while an extremely attractive less-confident guy could end up alone just because he doesn't know how to present himself. All girls have different taste when it comes to physical appearance, so it's impossible to define what an attractive guy looks like. All you need to know is that confidence and a good personality will win us over for sure :)

[slipslender]

i think sex appeal is more like a vibe a person sends off. e.g. I met this guy a few years back who was dark-skinned, on the slender side, around 5'7, dressed somewhat edgy, and had this definite sex appeal thing going for him. I can't pinpoint exactly what about him gave him that appeal, but my friends and I all agreed that there was something about him. interestingly, he didn't fit any of our 'types'...but there ya go. :p

[Phoenix1991]

Ahh I understand exactly what you mean or trying to say , thanks.

[slipslender]

np :)

[Snow123]

Yeah, this is basically what I think it is as well. Good answer :)

[slipslender]

thanks :)

[cyrus7]

you're welcome

[toulouse]

i don't really think of 'sex' appeal. there's attractive& all the things that go into that. but not sex appeal, per se.. maybe because I'm a virgin.. idk.

I tend to like medium height, smooth hands, dark skin, dark eyes, dark hair-longish, thin, muscle definition, high cheekbones, flat stomach, nice voice, insightful eyes.

[Phoenix1991]

Because your a virgin doesn't mean you don't know what sex appeal is, but I understand what you mean so thanks.

[toulouse]

well, I really meant that I don't think in terms of sex period, appeal or w/e. but if I was having sex, I might.. tho I tend to not think that way. like d never say someone is sexy, id just say attractive, so yea ;) hmm, I didn't say much about personality, because I thought you were asking about looks, but compassion, intelligence, & ironic sense of humor, are definitely attractive. & him respecting me& me trusting him is more important than any of those things.

[Phoenix1991]

Thats what I assume what people find sex appeal is based off the things they can see aka looks. Then again I couldn't tell if it was based off the way someone carried themselves, looks, or a combination of them both. Oh well, I got an idea is that its a combo of them all, I think

[toulouse]

i think someones essence is the most powerful attractor. energy vibe sprit etc.. that's why different people are not attracted to the same person, tho they may be 'attractive.

[Phoenix1991]

I couldn't agree anymore.

[toulouse]

lol You mean you are finished agreeing, or you agree quite unanimously ;) lol

[Phoenix1991]

I agree quite unanimously and strongly.

[toulouse]

cool ;-)

[Anonymous]

It's about your presence man. That comes down to your mood, confidence, charisma, and just being generally relaxed and smooth. Stop trying to be an image and be yourself. When your completely calm inside and entirely comfortable in your own skin it shows. You could be totally cleaned up in a 3 piece suit or a few days unshaven in a t-shirt and jeans and get the same reaction so long as your have the same mood.

[Phoenix1991]

Oh I don't have a problem with my "sex appeal" I'm always myself hence my fashion, hair and overall attitude. I was just wanted to clear things up.

[RealMenFly]

Something that makes me want to have sex with them. Like the sex side of attractiveness, nothing else.

[chrissy_love]

A guy's sex appeal in my opinion is about the way he carries himself. if he's confident but not cocky, if he's passionate but not overly emotional. Pretty much what makes him..HIM is what I consider their sex appeal.

[Anonymous]

his smile. is he cute? then the way he dresses. sloppy or no? and then his body type. we don't always go for the muscle heads, I just mean does he look healthy? things like that. it even goes down to his smell. BO, or cologne.? bunch of different things. :)