Girls do you ever like a guy until he likes you back; then you can't stand him?

[Anonymous]

I can totally be the one pursuing the guy, but when I find out he likes me back and he gets all attached to me, I don't like him anymore. Is that normal? or is that me finding things wrong with him because I'm not completely self assured? or is it because he was too easy to get and I want more of a challenge subconsciously? I cannot for the life of me figure out what my deal is! anyone else do this too? guys too. and guys why do you do it?

[ctupper]

Wow... same thing happened to me a couple of months ago. I really liked this guy and I told him that I liked him and when I found out he liked me I was like Yes! But after we started talking he became all attached to me like we had been dating for months. He started sending me <3 in texts and I asked him what that meant and he said he loved me! We had only known each other for a little over two weeks. I didn't want to be mean and tell him I didn't like him after I had just told him a couple of weeks ago but he started getting all touchy feely. It got to the point where if I saw him in the hall heading my way I would turn and run in the opposite direction. I ended up trying to avoid him and he finally got the heads up. I feel really bad about just ditching him but if I hadnt I don't know where we would stand today. we don't talk anymore...i think it is normal for girls to want a challenge and he wasnt a challenge so I let him go. in my opinion your perfectly normal!

[Paigeheart]

Hahaha the same thing happen to me.I was crushing on this guy for months!When I found out he liked me back.I dated him for one day and dumped him because I didn't like him anymore at all.It's normal because you didn't realize what was wrong with him until you started dating.

[ttlynotobsessed]

That has happened to me twice. I don't know why either. I liked one person and as soon as they liked me, I jsut had no interest in them. Don't worry, you're not alone.

[Anonymous]

You see it goes back to the situation where if a guy is nice and caring girls don't want to know him romatically! A guy who is not so nice and doesn't treat the girl great (I don't mean hitting her or anything that bad) is going to intrigue the girl more than a nice guy who is the type to send her flowers and show his affection to her by ringing/texting her to say he really cares/loves her.

Please read my If A Guy Ignores You post. Some very interesting, yet mixed views.

[Amrit]

This happens to me all the time.

Even I am unsure as to why this happens. Good question though _____ I liked this thread :-)

[Secretgirl]

this has sooo happen to me many of times! I like the chase.

[ciabia713]

haha I do that a lot I think its because once you find out they like you you start noticing how much they flirt, when their all clingy and all their flaws show through which is a turn off lol in my opinion haha just gets annoyingish

[fuego1915]

Lol, with that attitude you'll never get a boyfriend.

[ciabia713]

Haha lol well I mean it depends on what they do