Wow lol go man go, women are all different if where your body doesn't get them your mind and charm will.
Me, by the looks of the responses I might not be in a good situation where I would date any. I've a working man's body, not exactly toned but with muscle that surprises many and I just laugh. People look at me and see senior chubby bubbly. But when I toss a 100lb sack of grain over my shoulders and take off like its nothing they just stop and double check lol. I also do wood and those logs ain't lite by any means. My next door neighbor even apologized to me simply because he said he had the completely wrong impression. He thought I looked soft XD But after I was tossing logs around into piles manhandleing them and he went over to lift them later he said he almost lost a nut, figured they were dried out 40lbs. Nope. So w.e.
So yea do what ya gotta do. Looks are very deceiving and I wish some of you woman would realize this. Just do what makes you happy guy. Stay fit and stay active, you have looks but you also were given a brain to use as well, never forget that.11 Reply- +1 y
I gotcha man! I know it's not about how you look. I want usable strength.
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you seem pretty cut. You should've already have a 6 pack. Your genetics might not allow you to have them.
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I have a six/eight or some say 9. I never had to work for them hard. I had a six pack when I turned 14 and I never worked for it !. Now that I've been working out it gets crazy cut. My muscle mass increases quicker them most individuals. And one of my friends has the same genes. But the guy I work out with doesn't get bigger/cut eventhough we do the same work outs.
I'm not trying to brag or anything but some people can't have a six pack even if they are at 5% body fat. You don't seem to have much fat in your belly. So you should have had a six pack by now.12 Reply- +1 y
I'm at 12% body fat now. I still have some fat to lose. I'll probably be able to get a six pack. I had one when I wrestled, it just takes lots of working out
I'm pleased with either, and judging by the responses you've already gotten, you're better than alright.
I think, overally, my personal favorite is some tone on a guy's abs. But I'm biased because of the way my boyfriend is built.
Can't stand bulky muscle, so if I can see some light definition of muscle or a v-cut, I'm happy.26 Reply- +1 y
Thats pretty much what I have!
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More ab definition isn't bad though right?
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Not bad at all, as long as you're not trying to get to body builder status.
Keep in mind my hands are all over my boyfriend's muscles all the time, and it's just as good to be able to feel some separation in the abs as it is to see the lines. I know I'm not the only girl out there who feels that way. - +1 y
I'm not trying to get super huge. Just really cut and toned
link That's like perfect right there, anything more is kinda scary. But it doesn't have to be like that. link Those abs are really hot too. Or just a flat stomach.
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Not more defined?
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HAHA! How so?
You'll be okay Livi. - +1 y
Mind f***!
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@Update - It's okay, you got a V lines.. That's pretty nice.
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More definition and I'm golden though right?
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That's pretty much exactly what I'm aiming for! I'm not trying to get too bulky
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yeah, your frame is just perfect for it.
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OMG! are you kidding? you are perfect! :O
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Idk I feel like I could be more defined ya know?
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No seriously, its great the way it is.
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No six pack? :o
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Maybe you could work on it a little more, but I like it. Especially the V-lines.
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Thanks. I'm def gonna work it! Lol
+1 yI prefer the non Dragon Ball male look, so more toned and not bulging. Then again, I am more attracted to a guy if his upper arms and chest are more defined than his stomach! No beer gut or very overweight and I'm good
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I wanna look like a dragon ball z guy. :0 lol just not so bulky
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She knows dragon ball so he gets an up vote lol.
It really depends on the girl. Some like really built guys that look like they work out at the gym all day and are big. I prefer guys who are toned, but not overly muscular, kind of like soccer players. I have never met a girl who was specifically into guys who are so jacked they look like they just stepped out from a body-building competition, but I am sure they are out there too. I think with attraction, healthy-looking is the key. Not too overweight, but not to slim either.
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+1 yi like a normal tummy, not a huge one but I don't really like 6 packs either, a little muscle is ok.
i just don't see why guys stress about 6 packs and what the big deal is about them24 Reply- +1 y
They are hard to get and it shows that you busted your ass to get it..
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lol I'd rather date a guy that put his time into something more important and didn't care about muscles on a stomach
but hey I'm weird... - +1 y
Well schools finishing up for me and I'm getting in shape for the military so I just want to go in in really good shape
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nothing wrong with being in shape I just don't get all the hype about abs
+1 yI personally don't like guys with cut abs and a v...I prefer toned but not super muscular. Just my preference.
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Oh. Am I toned?
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Your abs are toned but your v is cut
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So I need to work on my abs? :o
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By my standards, no. You need to not work so much on your abs lol. I like guys that are toned, not insanely muscular.
+1 yIf ya FIT then nothing else matters! Take care of your body and there will always be girls interested no matter if ya ripped or just lightly toned
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I got a pic in my account thing. And yeah I do. I'm trying to get more muscular in general. And get ripped. Haha it's kinda a goal
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lol you have abs dude! ha ha I don't think you got anything to worry about but if ya wanna get bigger good luck! I've seen some pretty petite guys (smaller than you) get completely hulked out in a year.
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I know I have them but barely. I just wanted to know if they were OK or If more defined is better. And I only have a four pack not a six.
Profile pic caption: "I was fishing for compliments the other day and I caught a real fish instead. lmao!"
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A very small fish.. Lol
+1 ythis is perfect link
I'm not a fan of the v cut very much, but I like some abs. Not gigantic ones though.20 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYou are just fiiine ( :p ) on the mid-section scale. I'm personally not much of a ripped-look fan, the v is defiantly attractive.
You're on the "fit" end of what I find attractive actually25 Reply- +1 y
But more cut up abs wouldn't hurt right?
Opinion Owner+1 yeh, really how the personalities mesh trumps abs any day.
I'd be more neutral towards more cut abs. I do really prefer the 'fit but not flaunting it' look that's going on right now.- +1 y
What about a good peesonality+abs? :) Lol.
And what do you mean by fit but not flaunting it? - +1 y
Alright. I understand. Thanks for your answer. :)
+1 yYou're perfect. Hahah not to sound like a creep. But ideal body!
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What? Really?
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Yes really. In my opinion at least.
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Haha. Well thanks. :)
+1 yBoth are hot, I prefer a six pack but wouldn't mind a v cut at all.
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Are my abs any good?
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Your abs are hot.
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Yeah? Well thank you.
Honestly, as long as it's fit and toned, I don't think it really matters.
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Fit and toned... Am I fit and toned?
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Cool. I didn't think I was
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yV CUT ALL THE WAAAAAY! I love the v cut thingy. It's beyond sexy. As long as you're not fat and flabby I'm fine.
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So v cut by itself is sexy?
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI like a soft belly, haha. Visible muscles aren't mandatory.
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Really? Oh wow I though girls loved abs
Opinion Owner+1 yWe don't all like the same things ;)
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Oh... Haha OK :)
+1 ywith your looks I wouldn't worry about abs. no homo man for real
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But abs could only help not hurt right?
They all sound good to me..as long as he takes care of himself.(And isn't super buff).
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I definitely don't wanna get super buff. Just kinda sorta buffer
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yV cut definitely ! it's way sexier than ripped six pack abs !
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Really? I have a v cut. :P
+1 yI don't like abs, I prefer it when a guy has a soft belly.
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+1 ydoesn't matter as long as you don't have a beer belly. and are in good shape.
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I definitely don't have a beer belly! Lol I have the v cut just no abs
i would guess they like the toned abs. Some of the ripped abs look really weird lol
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You think so? I always envied the really defined abs.
+1 yNope. I prefer a chubby one. LOL! more comfortable to hug.
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+1 yI would say they love six packs which is bad for me.
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+1 yripped abs are scary. so no. lol
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I'm shocked! I thought girls loved six packs. Lol
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not me :p
yours is definitely fine lol
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Yeah? No six pack though?
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Really? Hmm. Interesting...
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Cause I always thought girls liked six pack ripped abs. That's what I'm aiming for
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Ok. :) good to know
Defined abs look great on men.
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