Why can't my ex husband look at me in the eyes face to face still 7 months after he left me?

[EvilWolvezAngel1]

"We were not married for a year even when he left me in a text message because he was a coward to tell me to my face, we were together for almost 8 years & have a 6 year old child together, he left this time for a 18 year old he works with who now live together are buying a house together after just 7 months of being together & she is preggo due in August with a girl that she says is his but dates don't add up, our divorce was final last week & he is now forced to give me my cs hadn't giving me a dime in 7 months, but at his visitation when we meet & he gets our daughter & I talk to him he talks but can't look at me he is always doing something else like exchanging her bags from my van to his car etc y? my friends say he feels guilty still for how he did me I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy it still hurts to this day, some say he still loves me & can't look at me because he feels remorse, he is 29 she is 19 he moved on why still feel that way, any suggestions?"

[martyfellow]

If he felt remorse he'd dump the teeenager. There' s no excuse for this. Of course he feels guilty. That's your best revenge, nothing you could ever do wold torture him worse than his guilt.

If I were you I'd ask him if she's got her wisdom teeth yet, or ever WILL get wisdom teeth. You know, rub it in and again and again.

[martyfellow]

BEst Answer don't ya think?

[EvilWolvezAngel1]

Ya really think its guilt? Y feel guilty he moved on with 19 year old lives together & fixin to buy a house together & have a baby with her in August all in a 7 month period, our divorce was just final 2 weeks ago so why feel guilty, remorse or anything? He walked out on me after 8 years in a text message not to my face because he was a coward because he says I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore & I want to start my life over this is the 2nd time he left me in one year first time was for a 43 year old.

[martyfellow]

No, you can be sure he feels guilt...a lot of it!

Thanks for the best answer

[EvilWolvezAngel1]

ok you think its guilt huh tonight I take our daughter to meet him for weekend & he shows up in a 2006 Toyota tundra black jacked up & loaded & bad ass llooking truck don't see it havin much room to hall baby in tho let alone with our daughter too any way he did that sh*t as always to rub it in my face to prove there better than me I could have a nice truck too if I didn't have any kids to pay for anyway we were talking about the truck me asking questions & him answering me while doin other stuff y?

[Anonymous]

He feels guilty. Tell him that you want closure to you all's relationship. Sit down with him and tell him how you feel and let him know that you are ready to move on. See how he reacts to that conversation.

[EvilWolvezAngel1]

Thank you for your input to my question. you are 19 do you see yourself staying with a man who is 29 & 10 years age difference? & why would you get preggo to a married man? he left me for her so he cheated on me while we were still married our divorce was just final the 10th. any insite is appreciated. thank you in advance.

[Opinion Owner]

I was with my ex-fiance for 5 years before I found out that he was cheating on me with his "best friend" and I was pregnant by him at the time. He did not give a sh*t about his unborn child until after my miscarriage. He was 10yrs older than me.

[countrygirl123]

Sounds like he realized he made a mistake and may not be sure how he can fix it. Your thoughts seem about right based on what you have explained.

[Anonymous]

Because he is a coward and is ashamed of how he went about it all.