Husband don’t get over ex?

[Anonymous]

My husband is obsessed with his ex, but any time I try to talk about it he just get angry and tell me I’m crazy, he still have his old chat with her, even with D**k pics, and other pictures and videos of them having sex and threesomes. I feel really weird cause this was not the man that I married, oh well not the one that I knew, in those texts he just seems to be super freaky, he even texted her that all, all the woman that he had dated were “boring AF” that she is the only one that make him “crazy”, he even made a song about her, and some months ago he told me that I’m “basic” at sex, so I really feel like shit. Is something that I’m creating on my mind or he really seems obsessed?

[btbc92]

This is why you do not have premarital sex before marriage, you don't date or marry such men like this, and why you do not get involved with such people. He is abusive, is cheating on you, and don't care about you. He is the man you married. He is just a two-timing jerk who took advantage of you and is taking advantage of women. He doesn't love her, or you or other women. He doesn't even want her. Let's not get that one confused. He just wants SEX. Period, because there is something about her and in her he desires for himself and because he cannot get that, he trying to play the heartstrings. Why she is still responding if anything is a red flag. I highly suggest you get that on tap, record, and document this, head over to your county office where you got married at and ask for divorce papers and get a lawyer. If you had sex, threesomes, and all of that others stuff, that IS the man you married because you were in agreement with it. If you knew this and find this to be okay you cannot judge him. Because something made you desire and marry him, to have sex with him. I find that out I would not date or marry such a man. That is a perversion and that's sick. I'm getting sick just reading what you're describing. Not your fault, but that's sickening. It is THIS what men do, why women divorce, but blame us for divorcing those guys. And say it's the government's fault. This is why many marriages go sexless and why so many women hate having sex with their partners or spouses because they treat women like that.

I am sorry you have to live with that, but you going to have to make a LOT of changes if you don't want a repeat of that again. I cannot tell you what to do, and as much as I wouldn't want you to get a divorce, you may not have a choice because that guy while married to you will not change. Not like that.