How to Tell If A Gemini Man Is Playing You

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Well sometimes I don't believe in horoscopes and sometimes I do. Everybody ALWAYS says gemini guys are big flirts, players, and just mess with your head. They don't really know what they want, especially when they're young. There's this gemini guy I met that is seriously in love with me. He's really nice and sweet and says he has never met a girl as wonderful as me. He admitted that he was a big flirt but he says he just can't flirt with any other girls now that he has met me. He tells me good morning and good night every day. Sometimes, If we don't talk for an hour, he says he misses me. He always says how he loves how I made him (I made him into a big softie haha), how he couldn't picture his life without me, how he wants to marry me, be with me forever, etc. He even says he loves me and asked me to be his girlfriend but I said no because I don't want a relationship right now and plus I'm not so sure about him. He seems really sincere, but I just don't know if I can believe him. I'm a Scorpio and that makes it even worse because they say a gemini and Scorpio is the worst together lol. What do you think? Do you think he's just saying this stuff? He has me going crazy!

relationshipDNA · Accepted Answer

First, off, let's establish that whether a guy is a douche or not has absolutely nothing to do with his sign. You will find a douche, a cheat, a liar and a jerk in every horoscope sign there is. Character is something you build over time and that is what you should be judging him on.

Whenever you go apply for a job, you're asked for a resume and sometimes even references. Well I think when it comes to dating, those rules should also apply. I am going to judge you based on your history and if you want me to overlook your past, you are going to have to give me one hell of a compelling reason to give you a chance.

Anyone can say anything. Actions are what matter. So no, you shouldn't just believe him. He has a history that says you should be cautious. My confusion is that you declined to even consider having a relationship with him. If you could believe him would you give him a chance? What's your end game here?

Do I think he's just saying this stuff? On some level he might mean every bit of it, but it doesn't mean he will change his old ways. I can't judge. Perhaps he is a changed man, but in my experience, that kind of change happens very rarely.

No more horoscopes, though. It's crap, and if you use it as a compass as a basis for who you date and start a relationship with, you'll find yourself dating a lot of losers. Character and personality is what matters.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If he tells you that when you two haven’t been together for long then don’t trust him that much. Geminis are liars haha. I’m a Gemini and I’m honestly not a flirt but sometimes I catch myself doing it naturally haha. I like the feeling of making people like me tho I feel guily for getting their hopes up. But everyone is different. You make your own destiny. If you like what you’re astrology thingy says then be happy, If not , don’t believe it ;)

cmknoll3 · Accepted Answer

Astrology is bs anyway. I'm a Gemini and I've never been a flirt. I've always been very reserved with women. Don't base your decisions on something as obviously false as astrology.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't know, I don't follow that stuff. So, what am I? I was born on may 10.

woody · Accepted Answer

Ways to Tell If a Gemini Man Is Playing You

There are a few surefire ways to tell if a Gemini man is playing you:

If you notice that he's constantly changing his plans or being super wishy-washy about things, it's a good sign that he's not really serious about you.
He may also start to disappear for long periods of time without any explanation. If you're constantly wondering where he is or what he's up to, it's probably because he's not really into you.
Another sign that a Gemini man is playing you is if he's always trying to start arguments with you. He may do this in a playful way at first, but if it starts to happen more and more, it's likely because he's trying to create distance between you two. He may also start to nitpick everything you do in an attempt to get you to react.

If you notice any of these things happening, it's best to just move on. A Gemini man who is interested in you will make it abundantly clear. There will be no games or mind games, he'll just be straightforward and honest about his feelings. So if you're not getting that from him, it's time to move on and find someone who will give you what you deserve.

Signs a Gemini Man Is Not Interested

When it comes to the Gemini man, it can be hard to tell if he’s interested or not. He’s known for being a bit flirty and indecisive, so it’s no wonder that you might be left feeling a bit confused.

Here are some signs that a Gemini man is not interested in you:

1. He’s not spending time with you

If a Gemini man is not interested in you, he’s not going to bother spending time with you. He’ll make excuses not to see you and will generally keep his distance.

2. He’s not interested in your life

Another sign that a Gemini man is not interested in you is if he’s not interested in your life. He won’t ask you about your day, your family, or your friends. He doesn’t want to know what’s going on in your world.

3. He’s not flirting with you

A Gemini man is known for being a bit of a flirt, so if he’s not flirting with you, it’s a sign that he’s not interested. He’ll make eye contact, but he won’t hold your gaze. He might smile at you, but it won’t be a real, genuine smile.

4. He’s not interested in your opinion

Another sign that a Gemini man is not interested in you is if he’s not interested in your opinion. He doesn’t care what you think about anything and he’s not interested in hearing your thoughts on anything.

5. He’s not interested in your body

A Gemini man is known for being quite physical, so if he’s not interested in your body, it’s a sign that he’s not interested in you. He won’t try to touch you, he won’t look at you, and he definitely won’t be interested in any physical contact.

If you see any of these signs, it’s a pretty clear indication that a Gemini man is not interested in you. The best thing you can do is move on and find someone who is.

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

You say you sometimes don't believe... but your name and question title says otherwise. Gemini man or no, this advice applies to all men regardless of when they were born.
Now that is out of the way. How long have you known him for? Like actually constant interaction?

BlueScorpio · Answer

When will you guys learn that horoscopes signs don't have jack all to do with anyone's personality? People think I'm this cold person just cause my horoscopes is a Scorpio. People are more complex than that.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Horoscopes are always bs. You have to actually get to know people to find out what they are like.  Don"t date strangers, problem solved.

Anonymous · Answer

God gave you the brain but forgot put user manual.

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