He says he would go out with me if he was single

[Anonymous]

This is similar to one of my other questions but I'll put more information on this one..I Like This Guy. He Likes Me Back. He Has A Girlfriend but says he would go out with me if he was single and I dunno what to do because...

a) If I fancy him his GF might find out

b) He would have to dump his GF to go out with me

So basically nothing is going to happen between us. I don't wanna split up a relationship but I asked him if I was making him feel bad about seeing his GF and he said 'kinda'. He told me not to feel bad but I can't help it...I really fancy this guy.. WHAT am I going to do..?HELP ME!x

[LuvTheBeach555]

I really don't think you have anything to do but play the good girl... I understand you do not want to break up a relationship and if he should decide to break it off that would not be your fault... If he already has feelings for you, he shouldn't be in this relationship anyways... The ball is really in his court and he has to make the decisions about what he want... I would sit back and be a good friend to him and wait and see what happens... No pressure on him, just have fun with it, if it was meant to be it will be...

[Acuzio]

You should move on for the time being. If you still care about him later, keep an eye on the relationship with his girlfriend; if they break up, you'll know. Otherwise, it's probably a bad idea to stick around someone else's boyfriend when attraction is involved.

He probably knows that he could date you at this point. If you make it clear that you aren't waiting around for him, he'll be more likely to make a move. If he stays with his girlfriend, you'll know that she's the one for him.