Dropped my wallet, someone picked it and went, can't overcome the depression?

[shumailkazimi]

so I dropped my wallet which had good amount of money :-(

money + atm card and credit card (searched it till I collapse) driving license ...though I have blocked the card ...im unable to overcome the depression ...why is it? I'm feeling I have let every1 down ...feeling like a loser ...just can't handle things...what should I do to overcome this feeling...

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thnxs girls and guys...i have overcome the feeling...now I'm doing my work the way I shld without

thinking of it...bygones are bygones...time to move on (+1) to all of u

[Anonymous]

I am so sorry... but this made me chuckle. Cheered me up actually. Just that you're askiing how to overcome the depression from losing your wallet! lol! I'm sorry. It's funny. Nobody passed away nobody was disabled you weren't the victim of some horrific violent crime (very much thankfully).

I'm sorry but man my wallet was stolen from me by five guys who also took the time to brutally beat me and slash my face in a couple places... they ruined my best shirt too which I personally thought was very inconsiderate ha ha and here I am talking about it quite light heartedly and it wasn't even all that long ago. I didn't even get depressed. I mean sure I had nightmares, night sweats and night terrors, and panic attacks, for a while after the event, but I never got depressed. You even said it yourself that you blocked the card so there's nothing to worry about and you don't even know that it was stolen all you know is you dropped it and couldn't find it. There may even be people trying to do the right thing by getting it and all its contents back to you right now - you may feel a little silly if that happens.

unable to overcome the depression, feeling you have let everyone down, feeling like a loser, just can't handle things, what should I do to overcome this feeling lol I'm sorry I can't read that without smirking. Just so trivial.

Ladies and gents, there's more to this story. This is about more than a wallet.

[shumailkazimi]

thnxs man

[Temporary46]

What city you live in? yikes

[Opinion Owner]

Dang on re-reading my answer I feel kinda' bad... I was being honest but I feel bad now lol. Maybe I was a little harsh with the saying it how it is but it seems like you've put things into perspective seriously I hope you get happy again soon! It is an annoying thing to happen though but just remember it isn't that bad.

And I lived in Derby in the UK when that happened. I reckon Derby wouldn't even be on the top 10 cities with a bad reputation in the UK either, maybe not even in the top 20.

[supersean123]

When I was 10 I won $100 from a drawing at the local mall. We got a phone call to come pick it up but my parents were out of town and it was during Winter. Where I live, you don't go out during Winter because there's 3 feet of snow everywhere. When my parents returned from their trip, we were notified that the gift card had expired. (They were gone for over a month). At the time, $100 seemed like a lot of money to me and I couldn't get over the fact that I let $100 expire, that it became a memory that I carried around. A few years later, I found myself selling things in school, later playing poker, that $100 meant nothing to me.

So what I'm saying is: Put things into perspective. Yeah it might mean like a lot of money to you now but down the road, probably not. People lose wallets, it's nothing to be a shamed of. Things could have been worse. You could have accidentally ran someone over with your car. Have a beer.

[MyThoughts]

Because it feels like someone out smarted you and got the upper hand on you. Someone stole from. you and took something that belonged solely, to you. So you feel depressed and angry. But try no to think about it preoccupy your tim...emotionally distance your self from it. You have to get over it because you have to accept the fact that your powerless and nothing you do will get it back. Truth.

[Prettygurl12]

You are way too upset over this than you should be. Yeah, it sucks. But sucky things happen.

[adamcdavis]

makes me think of when I was 19 and went to my first music event with a friend and drove all the way from Phoenix to San Fransisco and while there dancing my shorts had holes in them and my wallet fell on the ground and had 350+ dollars in it. At an electronic music event with a lot of like ghetto looking raver kids I got lucky and the guy who happened to find it on the ground without me realizing I had lost it was an off duty cop who then found me and returned my wallet.

[pezzonovante88]

There's nothing to be depressed about. Get new cards and move on. Maybe reassess your need for a wallet. Change things up and get a cool money clip, perhaps.

[Temporary46]

Have a beer.

[shumailkazimi]

:-(

[Temporary46]

I know, I know it sucks. Maybe if you went out and gave some money to a homeless person it would help you feel better.