Wherever I go girls laugh at me - what's the problem?

[DearbornG]

I'm 24 years old , calm person , very nice guy, every person knows me respect me friends, customers, neighbourhood, but the problem is with girls who don't know me seriously this is too much especially in the last month some of them smile, some giggle, some laugh but I feel its sarcastic laugh , and I'm thinking to beat up the next girl laugh at me to make her "smile" better , I'm starting to lose my self confidence . I don't see anything wrong with me, I consider laughing without a reason is very rude and disrespectful , so what should I do ?

[bijinbijinbijin]

Maybe you are just being too sensitive to laughter. The only reason I can think of for why you would be so upset about girl(s) laughing is if you trully belive there is something about you that is not likeable. So the only way to fix that is to like yourself first and once you realize that you are a very likeable guy then you won't pay any mind to what anyone else thinks about you.

Building your self esteem might be a little hard at first but a sure way to do it is just stay away from the girls and go do things that make you feel good about yourself.

when I started to feel sh*tty I gave myself a little break. Just went to get my nails done and hair done, all alone and away from the things causing me stress, it felt good and peaceful. So you should try it too, well I don't mean nescesarily getting your hair and nails done but you should do things that make you feel good and build you up.

[learningthegame16]

Nothing's wrong with you (unless you're wearing something riddiculous like yellow socks with flip flops).

A lot of girls giggle and smile around guys they think are cute or have a crush on.



Generally girls that giggle are very inexperienced with flirting around attractive guys. A good rule of thumb, the louder, the more nervous.

Chin up and feel confident because it looks like you're a spunk :P

[DearbornG]

actually I wear brand names like polo Raulph Lauren, Nautica, etc..

so I don't think it is the cloth. Not really sure but maybe its my chubby cheeks

[GayLoner]

Girls laugh at me too and sometimes if I’m not paying attention they purposely tell me “were not laughing at you” so I began to then think they are

[kia58]

Seriously the "I'll beat the next girl up" is a torn in the eye while reading your post. That's unnecessarily cruel and the stupidest thing you can do to react. Learn to stand up for yourself. The girls are laughing because they are gossiping about you, since their empty lives and brains disable them from reaching a meaningful topic of conversation.

[kheserthorpe]

I don't trust your judgement.

You have low confidence around girls so you interpret their laughing as sarcastic. Maybe it is, maybe it isn't. Do you get laughing only from groups of girls, or from girls on their own as well?

A group I'd guess is more likely to be laughing AT you with each other - though not necessarily.

If a girl on her own found you a loser, she would probably be more acting trapped and wondering how to get away, not laughing. I would be surprised if you were getting laughed AT by solo girls.

But instead of going home and guessing why they laugh, why not ask for their number or ask them out? If they are laughing because you're funny, some will say yes, and if they are laughing because you're an incredible loser, they'll shoot you down. hard.

[DearbornG]

lol first of I don't talk to girls and I won't ask for their number, I'm fanatic Muslim and I don't date , and girls in my class find me cute they told me that but I don't care , my religion is very important to me. so this is not the issue .This happens when I pass by a girl or two girls, my problem is they don't know me so why they would laugh at me ?

[Tomisworthless]

What makes someone a loser upon first impression

[Anonymous]

I know you were kidding but seriously never hit / beat up or touch a girl in that manner -- very bad thing to say. How do you know they aren't laughing at you because they are attracted to you? Also how old are these girls, if we are talking young girls here say 14 and onward -- then that is totally expected. I had two very young girls laugh at me for pulling up in a black civic, lol. I mean who cares what they are thinking. Get a grip on yourself, be more confident in yourself, it goes a long way.

[GuyWannaHelp]

It is really hard to tell why girls appear to be laughing at you without knowing you. I agree with you, laughing without a (good) reason is very rude indeed. You could ask a good friend if he has a clue.

It is possible that those girl are just laughing at something else when you walk by. If you have a good female friend you could ask her if she knows why girls are laughing at you.

I hope this helped, at least a little ;)

[Anonymous]

I don't know that many other forums where guys are so spiteful and hateful towards girls than this place. You should see a psychologist for your anger issues. Threatening to beat someone up for those reasons is just wrong. Ask them why they are laughing at you. Learn to use your mouth like a civilized man before your fists, you crazy caveman.

[DearbornG]

You didn't read my entire post. I'm not a caveman I'm a calm gentleman and my baby face dosen't show that I'm agressive. you got offended and you didn't see how my sistuation could be offensive . I love girls and this one of the reasons for not dating one since I'm no dog for a woman who would expect me to do what ever she likes, and moma told me to be careful from girls for this reason and she said I'm a good guy who listen to his moma .

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not swayed. I still think you're a violent caveman just waiting to explode because a gentleman wouldn't even have mention the thought of beating up a girl. You are not a nice guy, not the kind of guy to take home to my moma.

[DearbornG]

whatever

good luck for your dog :)

[GayLoner]

You think he’s an aggressive hostile man when he’s simply just angry due to the excessive bullying