Why does he keep reminding me about his birthday?

[Anonymous]

My sex buddy for a year keeps reminding me his birthday is coming up. He hasn't asked me if we can do something special or anything like that but I am wondering is he expecting me to get him a gifft or do something special for him. We have been together for a year and never have gotten gifts for each other for any occasion. I was just wondering if he keeps telling me its next week is he wanting me to surprise him with a present?

[foreman3]

You lost me at "sex buddy". Is there a chance he things you're more than just that? Is he trying to turn you into a GF?

I don't know. Maybe he wants a BJ.

Maybe it's just his Birthday, and he's egotistical, and not thinking about anything except "It's My Birthday!"

[Asker]

I don't know if he is wanting more than sex buddies. He comes by four to five days a week now. And wants to go play golf together and take a vacation together but he doesn't talk about ffeelings or where he sees tjis sex buddy thing going. I am a little confused.

[foreman3]

Sorry kid, "buying the milk, when your getting the cow for free" and all that.

It sounds like he wants more, Why golf with a woman you don't love? I mean come on! J/K

It sounds like he wants more, but doesn't want give up the sure thing. What do you want? If you DON"T want to be the GF, don't buy a present and don't go on vacation.

If you do, say "Vacations are for girlfriends" and make him say it.

[johnmsk]

try to remember, within the past year or so did he tell about anything he would like to have, any fantasies he would like to fulfil? Maybe you hv forgotten some dubtle hints he may hv given. Maybe he wants to fulfil those in his birthday.

[Asker]

No he has never told me about any fantasies or anything he really wanted

[johnmsk]

then why don't you ask him directly..of what he will want for his birthday?

[Jking]

He is just hoping for something extra during sex

Buy a present for your self that he will like,

[Just2DangNice]

Maybe he just wants guaranteed raunchiness on his birthday