He called me at 2am; why?

[Anonymous]

So, the guy I've been dating for the past 5 months called me at 2am to talk about our relationship. what's up with that?

Background: Valentine's day he text me early in the morning to wish me happy Valentine's day. I replied back. He didn't call or come to see me. We're 2-1/2 hours away LDR. However, he calls me at 2am and I woke up from the call so we spoke until 5am. We had not spoken for the past week other than txt. I called him a couple of times and he didn't pick. So, why call at 2am to discuss and tell me he misses me? It's puzzling. I'm not sure what his deal is..

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And I mean we had a full 3 hour conversation talking about our lives, relationship etc. This wasn't like a drunk phone call of lets meet and have sex.

So, I'm really confused. Can someone shed some light?

Why not pick up the phone and talk about it on regular day hours but have convo at 2am..?

[Geminihunk]

That's a bummer. I would say I'm sleeping, call me tomorrow if an interest calls me so early in the morning. Just let it pass. Don't think or even over think it. Ask him and tel him to be straight with you. Only he knows what he wants with you and you know what you want with him...That's if you do want anything with him.

[Kasolod]

I think it was puzzling him too and he couldn't sleep so he decides to call you and get somethings straight. The truth is that he misses you and somewhat see a future with you. if not he wouldn't be thinking about you that late or stay on phone for 3 hours.

[Anonymous]

I wish someone would call me at 2am lol.. time for an azz whoopin lol.. j/k j/k j/k.. but really, I would sleep right through that sht lol..

I guess, he felt it was urgent and he had to call you right away :)

[Arwens-Fire]

I think this is a question you should be asking him. No one here can answer this because we don't know him or you.

[TheOneTurv]

i have no idea why he is doing this...i think you should ask him why he calls you at 2 in the morning. He'll tell you

[Asker]

Have you ever done this?

[TheOneTurv]

called a girl at 2 in the morning to talk about our relationship? no i haven't. I see my gf a lot so i rather talk to her in person about it. or did you mean something else?