Questions: Guy's Behavior

Guys, I need your help with something. Say you know a girl for a few years, if recently that relationship changed more to flirting/sexy would you be able to 'use' a girl you have known for years purely for flirtation thrill and sexual gratification. You know her, you know she doesn't sleep around, she has a low number etc

Hello! So me and my husband got into a fight today and I want to know if I make sense or if I’m just making this bigger than it has to be. My husband was looking on facebook marketplace and was typing up a message to the seller and as he was typing I had an idea that would help and I said wait don’t send the message and he sent it anyway. I got upset because I didn’t understand why he didn’t even hesitate or listen to what I had to say before sending the message. He started saying that I was only mad because I just want him to do what I tell him to do and started saying that he was humiliated because of it. It turned into a big argument and yes it may seem silly but to me I feel that he is constantly trying to dominate me and him not even hesitating to listen to what I had to say is hurtful. So am I being dramatic?

He told me that he still thought I was hot af and enjoys being my friend but he wasn’t sure if he could trust me.

But, lately, he keeps calling me pet names like babes and now he was telling me about how he was chilling in his boxers and that there was room for two in his blanket.

Also I was saying how sweet the strawberries I was eating were and he said: “must be why you’re so sweet”

Am I making a comeback from the friendzone or am I just wishful thinking?