Do you agree it’s not gay for one man to think another man is handsome?

[Anonymous]

I think it’s not gay because homosexuality has the word “sexual” in it because homosexuality is about a person being sexually attracted to a person of the same sex as themself. Male and female are sexes.

A face isn’t a sexual organ. To think another man or woman has a good looking face isn’t sexual attraction

[spartan55]

Not gay, but definitely not something I make a habit of declaring. No, point in it.

[abc--123]

Not gay at all.

[Anonymous]

I have no clue which men are attractive and which aren't. I mean I know taller guys are considered more attractive, as are fit guys, but in terms of facial features and whatnot, I have no idea.

I've been through this many times with my partner to where it has become a sort of game we play. We'll be out in public somewhere and she'll point to a guy and say "ok, do you think he's handsome?". I'll give my answer and in most cases she'll respond "nope, wrong again".

You need to understand that men and women are different in this respect. Unlike women, straight men have no interest in, or sense for the attractiveness of members of the same sex. We just don't.

[SecretsofKB]

Yeah, that for sure is not gay. Humans have an innate ability to recognize what is typically seen as attractive, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

I am gay, but I can still recognize when a man is attractive. That doesn't make me straight.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I mean, if you can agree someone is attractive without lusting for them then in this case yes. I can agree a person is hot, sexy, attractive, etc. but it doesn't mean I'd want to sleep with them.

[slatyb]

It's gay if one man wants to have sex with another man. Both men and women judge the appearance of others of the same sex.

[chrissykerdock]

no i always notice if a girl is very pretty it's just a fact not sexual

[lyrem04]

Yea we can all admire beauty within people from our own gender there’s nothin gay about it

[Anonymous]

I think most guys can tell if another guy is handsome-looking, to other people, male or female, without having any homosexual feelings or desires

[WhitneySnow]

Absolutely

[GuybrushFunkwadd]

Homosexuality