Questions: Guy's Behavior

I'm going to go ahead and say that I do not see the appeal of trad women over others.

Feminist women are just as attractive! They've got jobs, they don't rely on anyone, and staying at home to cook and clean isn't a talent to them, when anyone can get a good meal and some drinks for $10 anywhere. Feminists are realistic about what they want too. Listen to me, if they want a guy who's 6ft6in, rich and ripped who doesn't expect them to do shit for him, then they should say it, and go for it.

I'm still drawn to that type of subject matter like a moth to a flame (and also because a lot of it still applies to me) but I notice a herd mentality, a 1 size fits all approach along with everyone repeating the same things as if that's going to make it more true rather than delusional and misinformed.

The more I've digged the more I saw there was nothing there but an empty hole... and so I came to the conclusion that no one can tell you how to live your life but you. Because no one will truly know the complexity of your problems and how to solve them. Besides a lot of it is based on what you are capable of pulling off because someone could suggest to you what they would do but you wouldn't be able to do the same because it could be out of your capabilities.

***I should probably make a mytake on this to make it a little more clear and less vague.

Would you rather be a man who is short (under six feet tall), overweight, ugly, unattractive, small-dicked (less than 7"), and seen by 90-99% of women as completely undateable, but a hard-working intellectual genius (let's just say, an IQ of 170), and one of the top minds in your field, albeit not rich?

Or would you rather be a 6'5" tall, buff, super handsome, super-attractive guy with a big dick (8 or 9") who's 'sexy' enough can get pretty much 95% of straight women on the market, but really dumb (like AOC levels of stupid), vapid, and shallow and basically useless to society intellectually?

And no, you can't just change your appearance or anything. You are stuck this way for life.

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To me, this is so fucking true.

I want my personal space and time, but I like knowing I have company somewhere in the vicinity, let’s say, my house for example.

I like knowing that I can effectively be alone, but knowing that I’m not truly or literally alone because I have company also doing her own thing.

I’m not saying I never want to hangout or be with my woman, on the contrary, I totally want to do many things with her.

I just like the fact that we can inhabit the same space and still have our personal space

I like knowing she is there.