I am fully aware of that, I was just trying to see if anyone thinks guys have the obligation to give consent for being “men” due to some thinking guys not hugging when requested for a hug by a girl makes him a jerk, disrespectful, and not a gentleman. People get so confused sometimes and think that guys have no choice but to consent. My mom thinks that too, that guys not hugging a girl requesting it are disrespectful.
What the society says shouldn’t dictate your decision. If you don’t want it, feel free to just say no. If they turn out rude and complain about it, walk away. If that happens at work with anyone, especially superiors/authorities, tell your manager or one you trust the most. If you don’t trust anyone of them or they all don’t act in your favor, tell the HR. If the HR doesn’t act in your favor, tell the corporation or the headquarters. If they don’t act in your favor, then file a lawsuit.
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Issue is some people say that guys either have the obligation to consent or have to want to do it, labeling is as not being a gentleman and as being rude and disrespectful for not doing so.
you can decline without being rude. It's not your fault some people can't take no for an answer.
I know what consent means, I was trying to see if anyone thinks guys have the obligation to consent, which of course, makes no sense to think anyone has the obligation to consent for that will lead to disappointment. Like, everyone has different preferences but not everyone realizes that or the importance of respecting boundaries.
Okay, now here is the next question: Does a girl declining a guy’s hug request make her a jerk?
Girls can’t be jerks through their actions. Maybe through their words..
"Girls can’t be jerks through their actions."Not only false, but a clear indication of bankrupt morals and values.
Are u sure it’s not indicating something else?
Okay, so then you are saying a guy declining a git’s hug request makes him a jerk, but a girl declining a guy’s hug request doesn’t (necessarily) make her a joke? If you do believe that, what makes you to believe that? Please be specific and unbiased.
You’ve changed my mind, asker. They’re both jerks.
Thank you. Now you are probably not sexist.Although I do disagree with you. I believe it doesn’t automatically make them jerks. People don’t owe anyone a hug, and nobody is entitled to being hugged by anyone. But I respect you for not being sexist in this regard.
oh so turning down physical touch makes you a jerk😂 @TurningGraves hey lets have sex
... well that did not go the way expected well okay do you have a latex allergy or are normal condoms okay
@jspl90 , you should be careful to not make such moves here. Literally. I am no moderator but I don’t want to be blamed for that over posting this question.
You should join us, asker.
buddy I am not even on the same continent as her so these are justjokes and talk
@jspl90 , oops, I didn’t know that. Sorry.
@TurningGraves I don’t want to join in a sexual relationship. I would rather just have a platonic & no strings attached cuddle meetup, because of my religion and because I am disgusted by the act of sexual relationship. But if I had a girlfriend or was talking to someone, I wouldn’t be down to cuddle with anyone else besides her, but I don’t have a girlfriend. Do you live in North America by the way?