Guys do you get tired of fishing for women?

[scott04sa22]

It’s tiring…

Not at all

[Lonely888]

I gave up on that a long time ago

[Andres77]

My wife found me so... I'm done.

[scott04sa22]

How long did it take you to go out on your first date with your wife / future wife after you met her?

[Andres77]

We met in a bar... in Colombia.
Cheesy and cliche... she was just different.
I've still never met any woman of her quality since we met over 18 years ago.
I was not healthy, she was wild. She saw something in me that made her eventually leave the wild life and marry a gringo.
Rocky first few months, then therapy for me at her insistence and then it's been pretty good since then.

[t-8900]

lucky bastard bagged a latina >.<

[Andres77]

@t-8900 Dude, she bagged me... and when I woke and realized what happened i was happy as fuq

[t-8900]

I don't know man. Those raven haired beauties drive me insane. I'd love to meet a Mexican woman tbh. Love Mexican women especially! I like Puerto Rican girls too but I dont want to get stabbed. And before anyone decries that as racist my first girlfriend was Puerto Rican, their male population shrunk by 11% over the last 50 years from stabbings. They have a bad temper, just saying lol. If you get a Puerto Rican girl you might have to let her wear the pants. XD

[Andres77]

@t-8900 PR girls were never attracted to me.

Colombianas... had to beat them off with a stick.
I'm PR they don't stop at traffic lights at night.
Make sure no one is coming and don't even stop... keep rolling. Daytime is different but when it gets dark you don't stop until you're in your locked garage.

[t-8900]

I hear you bro. Whats up with that? Why so many short tempers? The one girl I was with got mad easily but she meant well I think. Her dad was a Pastor and she was a nice girl most of the time but when she got set off it was a nightmare. That's why i ended it with her. I can't deal with nasty temper tantrums from a lady. Its hard to look at them like that when they act that way.

[Andres77]

@t-8900 for every beautiful woman out there, there's at least one guy who's tired of her shyt...

[t-8900]

true bro, so true. Not every pretty face is worth the hassle. But i dont need knock out, drop dead gorgeous to be happy. Personality is a huge thing for me. I need a nurturing woman though tbh.

[Andres77]

@t-8900 I think suffering through the first two wives bought me some points in being found by my best wife.
Smart, funny, beautiful, wild and fun... but the best thing is... she's kind. Yeah, wives say "I love you" but even when I fucked up she never sought revenge or tried to punish me... she sought healing... every time (i didn't fuck up that much with her).
THAT outshines physical beauty and big boobs every time... even though she's got both.

[Andres77]

Oh, and I think short temper has something to do with their national beer... coors light.

[t-8900]

i'm lucky in that I dont give a damn about breast size. I like a pretty face. Thankfully makeup today can make most women hot af if done right lmao. I will even date all body types except BBW. Unless they are bulging muscles bigger than my own. Then it kinda feels like i'm gay XD

[Andres77]

@t-8900 did you ever have to take the MMPI?

[t-8900]

nope never heard of it till just now lol

[t-8900]

ill take it now and share my results with you.

[Andres77]

@t-8900 Minnesota multi personality inventory.
It's a multiple choice questionaire designed to help identify psychos in the military.
I had to take it before I could go to special forces sniper school and also for the special units I was in, every 3 years. Administered by a psychologist and then followed by an interview.
I don't know if they still do it.
Anyway, question #43. Do you like manly women?
I wonder if you would have passed...😉

[t-8900]

ah no i never saw that question. No i dont like manly men. Like you talking tranny or masculine personality, or buffed? I'm not sure. can you clarify?

[t-8900]

the questions seemed misleading like "Do you feel like someone is watching you?" Like I mean I was Christian for many years and don't know? maybe? lol

[t-8900]

my results: www.idrlabs.com/multiphasic-personality/test.php

[t-8900]

dont ask me why it gave some results in Spanish after i selected English. i have no clue

[ZDoes]

Hell yes. Truth of the matter is women control the game. Ultimately they're the ones that are going to determine whether something happens or not 85% of the time. I'm giving men 15% control in this sense cuz only about 15% of us have game good enough to have women at our beck and call.
It's been shown through research that women will know in under a minute upon first visual contact with a man if they're going to sleep with him or not. Which means that if a woman is bothering to talk to you and have an exchange you're already in. And what you need to do is not screw it up. This is much easier said than done as if you guys are anything like me especially when I was younger, screwing it up is what comes normally and naturally. Sad fact is the moment we stumble and flounder the moment we stammer or can't think of the next thing to say.. we've lost.
This game this hunt, is tiring. Takes work takes focus and it takes an ability to fake it till you make it to an end degree. For this reason and this reason alone that I have become very fun of the straightforward approach. I'm not going to play courting game with a woman. The odds are stacked way too far in their favor. So I rely upon the straightforward approach. It goes something like this: " I think you're really hot you want to get out of here and go fool around?" Or " you want to get out of here and go grab breakfast? " This one worked for me when I was literally thinking about pancakes. The secret I found is you have to shut up afterwards and let them answer. Ultimately though this is a numbers game. I can honestly say that in 40 years I have never had to ask potential candidate number seven. One through seven, one of them has always said yes. But I warn you gentleman you better be prepared and ready to function. That means don't drink too much and if you're like me over 40, it's a good idea to have that little blue pill somewhere in the glove box of the car.

[cth96190]

I gave up years ago.
Too much angst dealing with bitchy and self-destructive women; too much hatred from Feminists; too many insane women (one in four are on head meds); and far too much legal risk dealing with women.
In Britain, a man can be sent to prison for years if he approaches a woman. Really and truly, why would any man risk that?
All that to seek a relationship that has a 50 per cent probability of divorce after an average of eight years; followed by a lifetime of poverty and slavery via child and spousal support orders.
The cherry on top is that a quarter of children are not sired by the husband and courts order men to pay support for the children of the former wife’s bad boy lovers.
When the facts are examined rationally by men, they walk away.
The cost/benefit calculation for any form of interaction with females is severely in the negative.

[Inbox]

Just for approaching women? WOAH

[cth96190]

@Inbox
It is the wording of a catcalling law.
Any approach, verbal or otherwise, that a woman does not like BANG an Orwellian hate/thought crime charge.
In November, 2019, in Glasgow, a pick-up artist who had been making a video about cold approaching on the street was sent away for two years.
The same month, in Yorkshire, a then 19-year-old lad who tried to talk to a girl was convicted of a hate crime.
Because he touched her elbow, he was also convicted of sexual assault and placed on the sex offender registry.
His life is over. He might as well neck himself. All because he fancied a girl, so approached her.
Feminists all over the world are pushing for similar laws everywhere.

[Inbox]

@cth96190 Can you give me any news articles for that 19 year old? Or at least his name? Lastly, what is the statute or law name that doesn't allow men to approach and talk to girls?

[Wester1967]

Yes. Because invariably they think they can do better via hypergamy. But every time they run off and get with an F boy who ghosts them. Every woman I caught is now in 50s, single, no kids; single mom; alcoholic and/or childless and married to a drunk. Me, I’m about to go live and work on my 4th continent. So much for hypergamy

[Lionman95]

Yes it´s tiring so I stopped for now. I´m not saying I´m going to ignore women in the future or hate for anything. It´s just dating isn´t something I´m good at. I started to workout more lately and I´m looking for things that are alternatively interesting I can put my time in because finding a girl as an average looking guy who´s not good at coming with an interesting bio dating is like wind boxing.

[FunkyMonkee]

It's a waste of time!! In the first place, all the good ones are either already taken or too young to bother with and if you DO get one, chances are, she'll eventually fuck you over big time before too terribly long! Besides, most girls are only interested in guys that beat the shit out of them!! I'm not at all into that!!

[m33lad]

I don’t fish and I’m tired of women. When I was 16 I thought they were sweet and were like men with their me towing as you grew older I found out even hot girls are annoying as to just nag all the time while they’re the biggest hypocrites themselves alone is peace

[noohair]

To use the word fishing, you imply that you own what you catch. That is not a good way to think about another human being, You are looking for someone to share life with. To have a partner in life. You make it sound like work. It is hard to find the right person but it is a life journey, and I hope you are enjoying every day.

[Anonymous]

It does get tiring, I think majority of women and girls reject guys because A) we are not her type, B) She's been scorned by guys in the past so her automatic go-to is a no (don't get offended), C) She assumes you are after her for sex. Life is tricky, girls are tricky, it takes a lot of patience, rejections to get the right girl. To any guy reading this, one night stands don't count.

[Anonymous]

Yes. They don't make a good meal although there is plenty of meat on some of them. And the licensing is onerous.
Yeah, they're no match for a good rainbow trout.

[FatherJack]

Absolutely no desire to whatsoever. No bitterness towards women , simply cannot be bothered. Also , what chance does a 50 yr old single dad stand , in the very male heavy " dating market " Add to that the vast majority of women are sick of , and hate male attention , a significant percentage within those women , also hate men themselves , just for merely existing. F that !!