Guys do you get tired of fishing for women?

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Lonely888 · Accepted Answer

I gave up on that a long time ago

Andres77 · Accepted Answer

My wife found me so... I'm done.

ZDoes · Answer

Hell yes. Truth of the matter is women control the game. Ultimately they're the ones that are going to determine whether something happens or not 85% of the time. I'm giving men 15% control in this sense cuz only about 15% of us have game good enough to have women at our beck and call.
It's been shown through research that women will know in under a minute upon first visual contact with a man if they're going to sleep with him or not. Which means that if a woman is bothering to talk to you and have an exchange you're already in. And what you need to do is not screw it up. This is much easier said than done as if you guys are anything like me especially when I was younger, screwing it up is what comes normally and naturally. Sad fact is the moment we stumble and flounder the moment we stammer or can't think of the next thing to say.. we've lost.
This game this hunt, is tiring. Takes work takes focus and it takes an ability to fake it till you make it to an end degree. For this reason and this reason alone that I have become very fun of the straightforward approach. I'm not going to play courting game with a woman. The odds are stacked way too far in their favor. So I rely upon the straightforward approach. It goes something like this: " I think you're really hot you want to get out of here and go fool around?" Or " you want to get out of here and go grab breakfast? " This one worked for me when I was literally thinking about pancakes. The secret I found is you have to shut up afterwards and let them answer. Ultimately though this is a numbers game. I can honestly say that in 40 years I have never had to ask potential candidate number seven. One through seven, one of them has always said yes. But I warn you gentleman you better be prepared and ready to function. That means don't drink too much and if you're like me over 40, it's a good idea to have that little blue pill somewhere in the glove box of the car.

cth96190 · Answer

I gave up years ago.
Too much angst dealing with bitchy and self-destructive women; too much hatred from Feminists; too many insane women (one in four are on head meds); and far too much legal risk dealing with women.
In Britain, a man can be sent to prison for years if he approaches a woman. Really and truly, why would any man risk that?
All that to seek a relationship that has a 50 per cent probability of divorce after an average of eight years; followed by a lifetime of poverty and slavery via child and spousal support orders.
The cherry on top is that a quarter of children are not sired by the husband and courts order men to pay support for the children of the former wife’s bad boy lovers.
When the facts are examined rationally by men, they walk away.
The cost/benefit calculation for any form of interaction with females is severely in the negative.

Wester1967 · Answer

Yes. Because invariably they think they can do better via hypergamy. But every time they run off and get with an F boy who ghosts them. Every woman I caught is now in 50s, single, no kids; single mom; alcoholic and/or childless and married to a drunk. Me, I’m about to go live and work on my 4th continent. So much for hypergamy

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes it´s tiring so I stopped for now. I´m not saying I´m going to ignore women in the future or hate for anything. It´s just dating isn´t something I´m good at. I started to workout more lately and I´m looking for things that are alternatively interesting I can put my time in because finding a girl as an average looking guy who´s not good at coming with an interesting bio dating is like wind boxing.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

It's a waste of time!! In the first place, all the good ones are either already taken or too young to bother with and if you DO get one, chances are, she'll eventually fuck you over big time before too terribly long! Besides, most girls are only interested in guys that beat the shit out of them!! I'm not at all into that!!

m33lad · Answer

I don’t fish and I’m tired of women. When I was 16 I thought they were sweet and were like men with their me towing as you grew older I found out even hot girls are annoying as to just nag all the time while they’re the biggest hypocrites themselves alone is peace

noohair · Answer

To use the word fishing, you imply that you own what you catch. That is not a good way to think about another human being, You are looking for someone to share life with. To have a partner in life. You make it sound like work. It is hard to find the right person but it is a life journey, and I hope you are enjoying every day.

Anonymous · Answer

It does get tiring, I think majority of women and girls reject guys because A) we are not her type, B) She's been scorned by guys in the past so her automatic go-to is a no (don't get offended), C) She assumes you are after her for sex. Life is tricky, girls are tricky, it takes a lot of patience, rejections to get the right girl. To any guy reading this, one night stands don't count.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. They don't make a good meal although there is plenty of meat on some of them. And the licensing is onerous. Yeah, they're no match for a good rainbow trout.

FatherJack · Answer

Absolutely no desire to whatsoever. No bitterness towards women , simply cannot be bothered. Also , what chance does a 50 yr old single dad stand , in the very male heavy " dating market " Add to that the vast majority of women are sick of , and hate male attention , a significant percentage within those women , also hate men themselves , just for merely existing. F that !!

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