I currently have a guy who is 10 years older than me (24) who is crushing on me and I was curious if any of you guys out there would date a girl who is years younger than you? I'm curious to know what would attract a guy to this age as well given they are most likely both in two different places in their lives at the moment.
"...if it was legal"? Who's 'authorized' to BE the '3rd party' judging?
Who carries the societal 'tape measure' as social 'game warden'!
(Too young, throw 'em back!)
When in my mid-30's I had a friend who had a 4 yr old daughter who was crushing on me. Whenever I'd come to visit, she used to hop onto my lap to cuddle and intermittently fidget--- One visit, her Mom told her it was time for her nap and she candidly asked: "Can Wayne come nap WITH me?" and when her Mom amusedly said: "No"... lest you think she was naïve, Dawn Marie THEN coyly asked: "Well, can he come and nap with YOU?" Again, "... no!"
ALL humans... of ALL ages... are 'appreciative' of tactile pleasuring sensations and come to learn 'allowable' social societal context. Were STD's and potential conception ruled out... complicit erotic massage would be the default 'handshake'~
Man I don't care if it is illegal, although i do care if it falls too low to legal thresholds. I am not approaching or taking advantage if she won't take no for an answer, after warning her it's a mistake repeatedly, and my I can no longer discourage her attraction , while I similarly fail to suppress my mutual desire. And she tells me "she understands how complicated it will be, how socially unacceptable it is, and the horrors, ramifications , of "fake love" , things that older women experienced and caution , but at the end of the day. She deserves to make her own mistakes and gain from those experiences " and y'all can ca me a predator, I'm just a guy who got lucky. And doing whatever I can do dispel the stereotypes the stigma and controversy. She wanted a man, not saying I am that , but if it's not gonna be me, it'll be the next , and I feel there's a good chance that I'm a better option then the next mother fucker because whatever I lack I'll make up wit effort as long as we continue to grow and connect.
So you're 24 and he's 34. That is no issue at all. I would not hesitate to date her.
The biggest age gap or me was when I was 36 and started dating a 30 year old. She was actually the first girlfriend that I truly loved with my whole heart (as opposed to infatuation). And she loved me. We lived together for almost two years.
If I was single again at this point I'd consider dating 20 years younger if she was the right fit for me. Maybe 5 years older than me at this point.
Before anyone decides to say how unenlightened that attitude is, it's because right now my son is 5 and I stress "at this point" I'd not look to be involved with someone older than me because of him.
Oh, I absolutely would date a woman ten years younger than me, and I recommend that you give this gentleman every opportunity to see if he's right for you. Older guys typically work hard to please a woman.
Yes, ten years is not much once you get past 50. When I was 22 I dated someone who was 17 and still in high school. I really loved this girl but sometimes I used to wonder if I was crazy to be dating her
Yeah, I dated a woman decade younger than me when I was in my 30s. It's no big deal since you're bother adults.
Are you kidding? men tend prefer young women, the real question is if you interested too.
I think after college anything goes if it's safe, legal and consensual. I wouldn't want anyone defining or limiting my desires based on social conventions.
yes, but I am older.
My wife is about 9 years younger than I am.
Legality has nothing to do with it
My ex is ten years younger.
I was 37 and she was 27 when we married.
