Questions: Guy's Behavior

So, Its no secret girls are virtually exclusive to liking guys with abs and shit. Many polls on here stand testiment to that. The hotter guy ALWAYS gets the girl. (I did a poll on here, That said given all guys had the same personality, Which body type would you go for, And like 96% said the ripped guy with abs)

So, Do you think, Us guys who are just naturally ugly / not physically capable of getting abs and shit, Should just give up and accept a lonely death? Or just continue pointlessly pursuing a futile form of happiness from girls who want jack shit to do with us?

*I Think its worth nothing, This is not a rant against women or a hate speech or anything, I understand why they only go for hot guys, This is just a question about ugly dudes)

Guys showing vulnerbility could often lead to things like having a deeper connection with a girl. Sure.

But, not to sound misogynistic, should a guy really, even attempt to give a girl THAT much power in a relationship? I've dated girls who responded to vulnerablity very well but it was after a year of not showing them any or minimal vulnerability from me. I've also date girls where I showed it and they "liked it", but the thing is, they started acting different around me. Almost like, they shifted their view of me as THE GUY.

Is it worth the risk in the beginning? I mean, guys (just like girls) could really develop some MAJOR trust issues if the guy wrong about the girl. If anything, I feel it hits a guy harder on some levels.

I feel that they shouldn't. At least earlier on in the relationship. I feel even though a small percentage of girls "like it", I think a big majority of girls, in actuality don't "respond to it" very well, even if they think that they would. I feel most girls respond better to a guy who chooses to show her his "masculine side" for a while first.

I'm an Asian male and I used to be obsessed over White girls. I just used to love everything about them. Their eyes, nose, skin and hair. I only saw beauty in them. But non of them liked me back. However, a year ago I started dating ethnic girls - Black girls, Latinas, girls of my own race, and I can truly say that i'm never going back to White girls.

Girls of other races just have personalities that are better geared towards long term relationships, unlike white girls whom have acquired a 'pump and dump' status. They also tend to age like milk which makes them look equivalent to an ethnic girl 10 years younger.

As, a 6'1, 170 pounds which consists of mainly muscle, I can state that white girls go after me like vultures. You don't even have to try. Literally no effort is needed. I think they realize that time is running out for them and this makes them desperate. Some of them even have the cheek to hit on me with my stunning Asian girlfriend. I don't even know how they can think they can be compared to her.
Now, I find 90% of white girls to be unattractive. The rest, although they might be considered 'pretty', I just really don't like their features which i find to be extremely repulsive, a huge change I know. For guys thinking you can't get that hot white chick, don't even bother, when you're older you will find them less attractive and you can just use them for a quick blow.

Anyone else feel the same way?