Its not a matter of trust here. I trust her blindly. But everytime she tells me she will go out with her friends I get jealous. Why?
thats exactly how i feel whenever my boyfriend go out with his mates but honestly, it's just that i want him to be around me more than with his friends. i find that getting jealous over your bf/gf hanging out with their friends is pretty stupid bcs lets be honest, we all need our time with others too! but dont worry about it, i can tell you just want her to be around you more!!
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Because you probably want her to spend more time with you 😄
Does she seem to have more fun with them than with you?
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Are you interpreting this as a rejection: she would rather be with her friends than with you?
It's an insecurity issue. A subconscious one too.
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because flirting is pretty much inevitable in many scenarios even if they say "we are just friends", there's always the odd ones that do flirt with each other even when they both have significant others, you see it in every group of friends, and they think bad about you if you point it out, it's all normal human behaviors, the flirting the denial, the jealousy, the getting annoyed because someone says it "how can you think that" etc.
you're just normal. like all other humans, we don't all feel or do the same things in every relationship, maybe in your next one, IF there is a next one, she will be the one with these feelings, or maybe down the line in THIS relationship many years from now, she will be the jealous one of someone you're friends with etc.
You're jealous for her time because you care, and that's completely normal. Just be sure to remember that she is her own person, and you trust her. So be happy she's going out. You should go out with other friends too.
Do you have your own friends? Its healthy to spend time with friends sometimes and not be with your significant other 24/7
If itโs not a matter of trust, what is it? You are afraid someone will do something TO her?
That is insecurity on your part. It is a common thing, though.
because she didn't invite you and that's just rude.
Assuming she's such a social person. But get use to it dude. It happens 😊
Because you ain;t with her and she is having fun without you.
Because you dont have friends?
Sounds like you might not trust her
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