Why do guys keep showering girls with attention?

[Schrödinger]

can't you see the bigger picture? Excessive attention is the reason the dating world is unequal and unfair.

Guys dont get any attention, which is why they will bend over backwards for girls only for a "hi". Girls on the other hand receive a ton of attention. They know that they dont have to work hard for it, which is why they get away with puttle little to no effort when it comes to dating.

"Guys have to suggest a restaurant." "Guys need to make the reservation." "Guys need to put more effort in the conversation"

Guys need to be perfect in order to be disirable, thats the reality of the dating world, whereas a girl needs to have only boobs and a decent body.

Gentlemen, its time for a change. We need to deprive women from all kinds of attention until they start begging for it. Until they start begging for us to be with them just like most of you do.

The change starts here, right from this website. When a girl asks for rate, ask for nudes instead. It pisses me off when all of you say things like "youre perfect" or "youre so beautiful I would date you"

NO. Just NO.

[Anonymous]

Just as many guys on this website ask for rates just like girls do. Ugly people aren't considered perfect by society regardless of gender. Physical appearances don't indicate perfection like you are implying by saying women are only objects with boobs. Men (and women) will criticize a woman's body because it doesn't fit with society's standards. Maybe this "rate" thing stemmed from the idea that men rate women's BODIES ONLY all the time and now women constantly want to be assured they are okay in their eyes. Straight men are the ones who started popularizing this "On a scale of 1 to 10 how hot is this person..." thing. I agree that the ACTIONS when dating or in a relationship should be equal but I don't agree with your ideas that this only happens to attractive women or that asking for nudes (which by the way, countless men give females attention BECAUSE they want nudes) is somehow respectful to someone who just wants to be reassured...

[Anonymous]

Sure, because this particular question will instantly make men stop showering us with attention.
Congrats on changing the world :p.

I wish they'd stop being so pushy though.
I'd rather be left alone.

[Schrödinger]

Yeah I get why thats annoying.

[AhGojira]

They show attention to specific men. If you're not that kind of man, too bad... Get over it. You're not as desired as some others and bitching about it isn't going to resolve your problem. Stop trying so hard to solve "the problem" and unify guys in your little scheme to punish women and start trying to enjoy life for yourself. See what happens when you don't really give a fuck, and girls wounder why that is? What does he have going for him? You're only as interesting and challenging as you actually are... Going on a bus strike isn't going to change you...

[AhGojira]

All over the place. It's bleeding threw your eyeballs. You sound desperate as fuck for attention.

[Schrödinger]

I am doing fine, not complaining. But I and everyone else would do better if we didn't put girls on pedestals. Why is this concept so difficult to grasp?

[AhGojira]

Most people have an ego. They desire status and attention and thus they need recondition. This is why people strive to get rich, powerful, have a desired partner, have a respected job, a nice car, fancy clothing, a big house, consumer goods, etc. Being that way by nature they instinctively feel that recognizing others (i. e. showering them with attention) is the way to show they care for someone. You know that entire do on to others as you would have them do to you thing... Basically they shower women with attention, because they desire attention... Or so I understand it... I can't really relate because I'm a genius... Apparently we "geniuses" repurpose sections of the brain used by normal people for ego and status towards self actualizing obsessions and find satisfaction in ideas like others do from status. Thus our recognition and since of self worth comes from within. So sorry I can't relate, but it does seem obvious why they act that way...

[Anonymous]

Cool story bro.

[Schrödinger]

Thats not a funny comment. Not even a clever one. Not even original :P

[Opinion Owner]

Wasn't trying to be