Polls: Guy's Behavior

When a guy tells you to feel free to send him pictures of your cat and that he can never have enough, does he mean from time to time? Or is on daily basis okay as well?

Cause I take a lot of pictures of my cat

I made it clear to this man from the beginning that I wasn’t looking for anything casual or serious due to my past experiences. He initially seemed understanding and gained my trust, which led me to develop feelings for him. However, once I expressed my desire to take things slow, he started to pull away and make excuses.

On our date, he shifted dramatically when I still didn’t want to have sex… he became rude and insulting, and ultimately ghosting me afterward. It was clear he only wanted sex despite my boundaries, which felt predatory. This experience has been painful, and I’m still trying to process it.

Essentially we talked for a while but things didn't work out. He was leaving me on the back burner so I cut him off. He blocked my Instagram, but then he undid it. Then a week later he removed me on Snapchat. But he still watches my Instagram stories. It's no accident so I just want to know what he is doing

I met a guy on a forum a couple of years ago and we barely ever talked. We’ve probably only texted 12 times. Randomly he texted me insinuating I want him to meet him. He phrased his sentence as if I was in love with him and needed him to come to where I am and like get a house in my city. Then, not too long after that, he texted me saying he wanted to fly over to my country and take me out. I know that if someone’s a weirdo I can block them. Especially if they are so far away. But I just need to know if that’s odd or suspicious or if they were just trying to be nice? I don’t want this question to make me seem dumb it’s just the fact they one day said something to me making it seem like they thought I needed to be dependent on them and have them move here and assumed I needed to be taken on a date by them that threw me off and I need to know if that’s eerie or if I’m crazy.

Snuggling with my girlfriend, she never paused or stopped when my pad was on.

My ex bfs would be so snuggly in bed holding me caressing me but when they felt my pad they stopped. Hugged me and stopped

Like my desire was still there but they lost theirs. Usually it's not even started yet but any want for lower me is gone.

So I was kicked out of a group for exposing a man and people felt that I was “bitter” and called me “crazy” for speaking my truth on this man. It was a very invalidating experience.

Let me be clear on why I’m exposing him…

1. He did not respect my boundaries when it came to having sex and ended trying to use manipulation. I made it clear to him before we exchanged numbers that I wasn’t in a space to have sex or be in a relationship. He kind of wanted to know why etc and he wasn’t pushy.. but he said things he felt I NEEDED to hear… and at first I’m thinking wow maybe he is genuine and understanding. Looking back it was hard to see his “coercive behavior…” to get what he wanted and wanted to gain my trust. Even saying how can I make you feel safe

2. Subtle changes in behavior after telling him that I wanted to take things slow with him and gaslighting.. I did end up liking him and when I said that… that’s when it started taking hours for him to respond and then it went to days… only to get a “sorry really busy”…. But it kept happening and I confronted him and he tried to say that I needed to “heal”….. but it was strange behavior coming from a man who was trying to make me feel “safe” initially…

3. Disrespect… (devalue/discard) everything was cool on the date at first but then he became disrespectful and rude… he started asking when I last had sex, dildos, negging behavior and some insults.

4. Not being honest about his real name even on the date.. I asked him if “Craig” was his real name and he said yes… I get you want to protect yourself but he really did not want to tell me his name and seemed annoyed when I asked. It was very fishy

5. After the “date” i tried finding a “gf”…. Bc i felt like he was talking to someone.. he has no social media presence and keeps things private

6. He is possibly bisexual or closeted based on some things I found

He made eye contact, smiled at me softly… then started to look like he was daydreaming whilst still smiling at me… then he snapped out of it when I started talking to him… I’ve noticed that our conversations seem to flow more naturally and we talk more… has he developed feelings? Is he falling in love possibly? Or is it just lust?

Ngl I kinda lost a little respect for the guy