Polls: Guy's Behavior

OR… WOULD ONE OF THEM EVENTUALLY BECOME JEALOUS / ENVIOUS, AND TRY TO ELIMINATE HIS MALE OPPONENT?

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If you’re laughing and joking around with someone you’re close to and they call you daft or “daftie”, would that be considered a term of endearment?

One guy keeps telling me that when I say something he considers cute. He often compliments my eyes, hair and smile etc. I asked a girl what she thought of that and she said if a guy considers a girl very pretty he wouldn’t das something like „you’re sooo adorable/cute“. Is she right?

My best friend of 3 years..
And I message together

I said I love u
He said love u

And this has happened like 3 times

And then

I said something

And he said awe

And in the middle of the line I said it because I love u


And I said I'm sorry if I offended

U said

Awe
U didn't offend me
I love you too


And I said friends?
He said no more then friends

I know it's a bit of a silly question, but this is something I've wondered for awhile. We all know how a kick to the groin for men hurt, but it also does to women.

Men have their stuff hanging out, while we have our stuff in. Everyone thinks that makes them more sensitive... but we also have the clitoris (which is WAY more senstiive than whatever a man does), and the bone, which is weak to any pain.

This is probably a really dumb question, but I was talking about this in a self defense class, and I feel like people just pass it off on empirical evidence and stuff. Women would be harder to hit than men, but that doesn't mean it hurts less.

Why don’t they go on a site with only men? Ik they’re sexist or trolling. If you’re fr sexist I wanna know why educate me Do y’all fw the quote from Barbie? Everyone hates women. Men hate women and women hate women. It's the one thing we can agree on. When she said that I felt emotions😔I’m posting this anonymously cause I’m scared

I switched gyms and saw GC for the first time 4 months ago. He’s quiet and focused on his workouts. I planned to leave state for 2 months so I figured I’d start a small convo before leaving to get his number. We had 3 convos over 3 days. On the third day, he said “while you have your phone out, take my number”. Then he asked, will you come back at all [from your trip]?

I took this as in he was interested in me.

I sent him a text with my first name only. So I asked before we left the gym if he’d like to hang out before I leave state. He said, “I have to be transparent, I have a girlfriend but things have been rocky and I don’t want to cross boundaries. She has an PA exam in May and I’m waiting until then.” He also is moving to CO in the fall and already told her last week not to move out there for him.

Over the next two days, he made the first move to strike up convo at the gym. I asked why he gave me his number and he said, “I didn’t want to miss an opportunity if she and I break up.”

I told him I’d wait for him to text me to let me know if anything changes and I wouldn’t contact him to be respectful of his relationship.

He found my social media and looks at my stories but hasn’t followed me. I believe he visits his girlfriend on the weekend (yesterday and today) and he viewed my stories both days in the morning and evening. I also think he found out that I’m 5 years older than him.

They’ve been together for 7 years (17-25yo). They both have deep Christian faiths. Their parents were college roommates. They played coed sports together in HS.

Am I just a shiny toy, distraction, rebound?

Because I know people who have a beautiful feature but are not attractive. If a guy tells a woman that her eyes are amazing and beautiful does it usually indicate that he finds her pretty or not necessarily?