Polls: Guy's Behavior

Like your hobbies/interest and not just your looks?

I watching this movie Anchorman with Will Ferrel. So funny. This line stuck out to me:

im going to take your mother to a nice seafood dinner and never call her back!

It showed me that men generally know what they are doing and what effect their even minor actions have on women they deal with.

I thought of this because I always see questions by ladies in here about why did he do this and then ignore me. Or some variation.

the interesting part of the quote is that it’s not even referring to sex. The man premeditated just simply impressing his enemy’s mum with a nice seafood dinner. Then simply disappearing off the face of the earth.

it reminds me that men generally know we are easily impressed! Heck… we fall for ROSES.

Need taken a class. But I’m half black. So I blame that lol for my natural dance skills. I just love dancing tbh but I think I can move easily and really well. I don't know. Hopefully I’m not delusional.

at first I thought it was something sweet he was doing, it is common for boyfriends to feed their girlfriends every once in a while, when my boyfriend did it too me I thought it was the sweetest thing ever he even read me bedtime stories to go to sleep ( he loves to read bedtime stories to everyone so that part isn’t weird it’s just something he likes doing” but it’s got to the point where he told me if I can sit on his lap so he can feed me I felt uncomfortable but told myself he just wanted to be nice and I didn’t want to rude so I said yeah of course! But while he was feeding me he made the airplane noises you know like the one parents do to their little kids to make them open their mouths. I started to get weirded out but again I told myself I was overreacting I then thanked him. Sometimes he does feed me at times and calls me his little girl ( because he’s 6’1 im 5’1 not sure if this is a kink of his or because he’s taller than me” am I overreacting? Is he weird?

So after me and my ex broke up about a few years later I slept with his cousin. (We shall call him Dean) I don’t regret it. Fast forward to a few years later. We live in different states and have continued to talk to each other as friends, we do send nudes and shit and we are there for each other when we’re having a bad day. I asked Dean if he feels bad that we still talk to each other even though I’m his cousin’s ex. He said no and that he guess his cousin had a chance to be a good man. We have tried to stop communicating but it doesn’t happen for long. The only excuse he gives me is that things won’t work out because of the distance and his son is in his state so he won’t leave. Does he like me or not? He also won’t say if he likes me or not.

I'm trying to get a feel of how many guys are okay with dating/have been interested in older women.

I'm talking +5 years older, specially when guys are in their 20s.

I know some women wouldn't go for younger guys, even if it's only a year or two, so what about you?

My friend got sick, like really sick. He usually still talks on the phone or texts us but he didn’t for like two days. I went to his place and he’s literally stuck in the bed and looked terrible. He had chill bumps but his skin was hot. So I had to ask his sister to get the thermometer and just like I thought he had a fever. I went back to my house and made soup and brought it back to him because he hadn’t eaten. Anyway he texted me later asking why did that for him. I said cus I’m ur friend duh. He didn’t answer back. Did I do too much? Isn’t that a good friend act? I don’t get why he even asked that.

I am not talking about your preference. But what you think most people think.

i spoke with my aunt about my crush and said that im not sure if he likes me back or not. she told me that since he isn't talking to me outside of school and church and doesn't text me, he isn't interested. but some people say that texting isn't an indicator of someone's interest. what do you all think?

i trust my aunt's opinion, especially since she isn't blinded by feelings like i may be. but one reason i didn't think much of him texting me is because he is almost never on his phone when we are talking. and he has told me that he's busy and with what. but i have also heard that even a busy man will make time to text the woman he wants. i am confused.

also what are indicators that a guy is interested?