Polls: Guy's Behavior

Maybe say hi or bye… or start a conversation.. even after I say something and we talk a bit.

Just not that interested?

There’s a family member who very frequently when talking to me adjusts himself on top of his trousers. We could be having a regular conversation and then his hand will go down there and he’ll adjust himself. I actually remember him doing this since I’ve been really young.

There’s times he’ll be laughing or we’ll have a joke about something and before I know it his hand is down there. I’ve noticed he doesn’t do it at his work or in public.

Is this normal?

Men care a lot about body count, I know, but I'm curious if they care about kisses/make out

Many men feel awkward maintaining eye contact with a girl, so it's common practice to show a little cleavage just to give them something to focus on and help them relax. If I feel a guy is uncomfortable looking at my eyes, I'll give the puppies a jiggle just to temporarily draw his eye and help him relax. If I've a face to face meeting with a guy who's known to be shy, I always wear something low-cut to help him look at me rather than stare at the table.

He says he loves big bums and doesn’t care for boobs or their size. Yet before me he’s only been with big boobs and inverted bums like no bum at all. I’m the first person with a big bum and small boobs. He said he doesn’t care when it’s just sex and that’s what that was before and why he went for girls with no bums.

But a guy who likes big boobs would never settle for someone with small ones so he isn’t really a big bum or bum guy is he?

All the models he likes etc do all have big bums and some have bigger boobs some have literally no boobs.

I was at the mall today and this guy stopped me to tell me I’m gorgeous.

I looked around to see if it was a prank and ultimately said no. And I thanked him for being sweet

then I tried to leave and he got in front of me to stop me, I said I was in a hurry.

he said I was too beautiful for this opportunity to just slip by and if I could just take his number

I said no sorry I’m in a hurry. I didn’t want to say I’m too old, I just knew it and wanted to leave and he got in-front of me again and insisted I take his number so I did it.

so he’s texting me now and I told him I’m more than 10+ years older than you so this is not gonna work, wish you the best.

but he insists that it can work because I’m exactly his type. He says

and what’s weirder is that I wasn’t wearing any makeup at all! And wearing large oversized pants and large oversized shirt. How is this even attractive. I feel strange.

I almost never go out. I don’t have a partner and don’t have kids.

I want family as most do, but I think a 27 year old will not stay with me because of the age even if he says he feels im his type.

what’s your guy’s advice?

I know plenty of women who by 40 are already done with relationships, already had kids and just want to have fun, maybe that type is the type most 27 year olds would want because it’s just a “fun time” and then move on..

but I’m different. I’m not done with relationships because I’ve never had one. I’m not done with kids because I’ve never tried to have one before. I’m want a permanent partner, love and a little family.

If he insists I need to just keep saying no right?

we look about the same age but the fact remains I’m 10+years older

I think I know the answer but whatever

Just to make it clear, I’ve never met this guy in person before. I’ve only seen a photo of him. And I’m not sure he’d know who I am unless my ex ever showed him a picture of me, because I’m not on social media or anything.

Anyway, I was walking down a busy shopping high street to go to a shop today and I just happened to spot this guy sitting on a bench. He made eye contact with me and stared my way, but I quickly looked away as I wouldn’t really expect him to know who I am.

Then on the way back along the high street I passed him again and this time he almost kinda shifted his body about on the bench as he saw me and looked up at me again.

On my way back to the car I’d crossed the road and he spotted me again, as he saw me crossing he stood up as if he was going to cross the road towards where I was. Again he was looking over my way.

Do you think he knew who I was? I had my sunglasses on, but feel there was quite a bit of eye contact going on.