Need help! Does dressing modestly actually turn the listing switch off in men?

[Anonymous]

I love showing skin but I did get lustful stares from men and I’m switching my clothing to covering my skin up. Does that work to prevent men from lusting over me?

Yes

No

Each man is different

[McLlovin]

Think of it like this: when you go fishing certain fish only like certain baits. If you wear skippy outfits you will attract dudes that only want to sleep with you. The guy that’s looking for something real will pass on you, because he can’t show you to his mother.

There’s no switch, we are simple. If you talk to much chances are we are probably going to go on auto pilot and yes-man you on everything

[stratford]

Skin tight clothing that covers your skin will still attract lustful eyes. Yoga pants are a great example, as are tight thin tops and no bra.

You'll need to go baggy to avoid guys creeping.

[Asker]

I will update here if any creeping on me as I wear baggy clothing.

[stratford]

Shame you won't be showing your skin.

[stratford]

Thanks for the MHO. Has the creeping stopped?

[Asker]

No not at all. Baggy clothing still doesn’t seem to work.

[stratford]

What is your figure like and what kind of guys are creeping?

[Asker]

Hourglass figure. Mostly middle age and elderly men. It’s strange since I wear baggy ass clothing with no emphasis of my figure.

[stratford]

I bet you have a beautiful face and eyes and that's where it starts

[Asker]

Sucks to be attractive doesn’t it?

[stratford]

LoL. Depends if you mind being perved at. You could use it to your advantage or just dress scruffy and have greasy hair and skin to look less attractive.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If a man wants to rape you, it doesn’t matter what you’re wearing. Your clothes don’t make you any more or less of a target.

[slatyb]

Generally modest clothing says to men "Go away, I'm not interested." It won't stop them from lusting after you, but I will stop most from approaching. If you really want to discourage them, get your hair cut very short.

[Anonymous]

Somel guys might find you attactive for reasons orher than your cleavage. Showing more of your body will get you more attention, if you are showing attctive qualities. I've noticed I get more attention when I wear a cutoff.

[OneViewpoint]

It may have a small impact. But if you're attractive, you're attractive. Men will notice you.

[Curiousbenjamin90]

It’s all about your confidence, he will see you how you present yourself.

[oswaldcobblepot]

Here's the truth no guys cares if you are wearing a big bulky sweater if you have big boobs or a push bra underneath

[Anonymous]

Men looking for casual sex find women who dress revealingly desirable.

Men looking for a quality woman for a relationship / marriage are turned off by women who dress revealingly.

[Colin234234]

Nope..