Let's say you're out in public and you see an attractive person, but you don't like what they're wearing: is it a turn off?
Ladies, you see a good looking man in sandals, cargo shorts, and a t-shirt at the grocery store or men, you see a good looking woman at the same place wearing mom jeans and a baggy shirt.
Absolutely. In my dating days there were at least a few girls that when we met up for a date I was so disappointed in how little effort they made it just turned me off to them. Gramma jeans, the same worn flip-flops they wore to the beach that day, a baggy t-shirt. Come on!
Conversely if I’m going going to go out with somebody on a date I make an effort to put my best self out there and dress accordingly. I almost never dress for comfort unless it’s a dash to the grocer or some mundane similar errand.
People just react differently when you’re dressed smartly. The world just treats a man differently in a nice, well tailored suit. Cover charges disappear, velvet ropes get opened, the upgrade happens easier, people are nicer and more outgoing, and when I was single - most importantly - the women were more outgoing and talkative.
Comfort is overrated.
Yes, unless the woman looks attractive no matter what she's rocking or not rocking 💟
I think if you are interacting with a person say in line at a store, when someone throws out a line to see how responsive people are around them to talk in those waiting moments.. Clothes don't hide intelligence, personality, etc. Sure everyone wants to look presentable in public, but we all run out of milk at late hours and think "I'll just be a quick in and out". Thankfully my riding gear covers my loungewear.
Ofc! How you dress is how people treat you. That’s just the reality of it.
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For me yes. I have a very specific style and I like a very specific style. For example I don't particularly like suits at all.
It is just... I just don't like it.
People can change they way they dress, unless they are convinced to always wear something totally outlandish.
I don't care, as long as people care for personal hygiene and use clean clothes. The rest doesn't matter to me.
I wear for comfort and to feel good. Not for others. If someone doesn't like cargo trousers or oversized t-shirts doesn't have to look at me.
Humans foremost respond visually...
your chosen attire either amplifies... or dampens... the Perceiver's innate impression. Either 'inspires'... or quells imagination... and despite feminism's injunctions, IS a culturally-'learned' language. Hence, societal 'uniforms' provide unspoken context.
I always tell people who have low self esteem, it isn't easy to change your features, but how you dress can make a huge difference,
It truly can. try it for yourself. in two separate days wear completely contrasting clothes and see how differently people treat you, also in how comfortable you are in talking to others!
Key word is outlandishly. However, clothes will HELP get you noticed but to judge a person on one wardrobe is absurd... College was sweats and hoodie or pajamas with a hat or pony tail looking like death from being hungover and those girls were STILL HAF 🔥🔥🔥
Yup, a badly dressed woman is one of the biggest turn offs. Most women these days dress like absolute garbage. Wouldn't give any of them my time. I don't care how attractive she is; a poorly put together outfit brings her down about 5 notches.
Yes actually. It can be a huge turn off. I see leather fur or wool I'm not attracted to that one bit. If they wear tons much makeup yuck long useless fake nails yuck. Over priced clothes too. I will never get why people overspend on clothes and stuff just for the "brand name". And the end middle class is making the rich richer and we dont want that.
Yeah definitely lol. You are what you wear. The way you dress says a lot about your personality.
If someone dresses in a slovenly manner it can give the impression that she doesn't have enough respect for herself or the people around her in order to take seriously the vibes that she presents and how it affects others.
If I saw a good-looking woman in mom jeans and a baggy shirt, I'd wonder what she's hiding (especially if she's buxom) , and I sometimes wear cargo shorts and a T-shirt-rarely sandals- but generally no, unless the person is so shabbily dressed they resemble a street person.( We attractive people often downplay our attention-getting looks in public to blend in with the crowd.)
Fuck yeah, and honestly I feel like everyone should have the same thoughts on how on one presents themself, I be seeing couples with insanely atrocious and I always gasp on how they look
Absolutely the way men dress sometimes makes me wanna throw up. I am grossed out by men who don’t put effort to look proper.
Um... I hate to tell you this but mum jeans and baggy shirts are very fashionable right now, if you anywhere you see young women wearing them 💀
Dress can be a clue to personality, but that is all it is.
But that's part of the fun, then I get to take her shopping!
yea if their style is trash gonna have to pass
I've been dying for the low rise trend to come back. Everything else for me is just meh lol. I do like leggings on a lady though. A pretty face can easily outweigh a bad fashion trend
u it can be quite stupid... sometimes
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