Polls: Guy's Behavior

yesterday, a guy that was interested in getting to know me called me. It was a voice call and then end up being a FaceTime call. We stayed on the phone for 39 minutes , for the voice call, then my phone died and I called back and we ended the conversation with another 49 minute facetime call (2 separate calls). But today, which is the next day, he hasn’t said anything at all. he hasn’t called again or texted me at all and I’m wondering if I reach out. Would that make me seem desperate? Should I just wait on him to reach out again? What should i do? Thanks in advance.


(I placed a poll in case anyone who sees this, doesn’t feel like typing. But I appreciate all personal responses. Thanks.)

English is not my first language so my grammar and such might be off.

So I'm the youngest of my siblings and have a niece 21 and nephew 18 from my sisters. And I am 22. Si one day the three of us went shopping and the store owner is very familiar to my family but first time meeting me. So on that day I kept looking in his direction without letting him notice cause damn he is so handsome. But I was super quiet other than shaking his hand and saying hi and goodbye.

He was helping us out but I kept every now and then turning to his direction and would catch him staring with a slight smile but quickly looking away when he sees me looking.

The second time we went he didn't look as much but was friendly then he asked my niece not me directly just her if I'm her sister she said not I'm actually her aunt and he looked so shocked and confused we laughed and he again said to her im very quiet and on silent mode we laughed and I just said yeah and he looked quickly at me.

Third time walking up to the store his outside helping one of his workers but when he sees us he quickly stops and walks in to wait for us to greet and help us out but little distracted and later on I went with my other niece who was younger into the store he was busy but when walking away he smiles.

Later on when walking past the store I can see him coming to stand in the doorway just staring at us but with such serious but curious eyes.

I'm really attracted to him and don't see him often but when I do I keep looking for signs do these mean anything please don't think I'm a shallow or selfish or self praises myself trying to trick myself thinking he is giving signs

Or do you just not bother approaching her at all?

my crush’s friend told my crush that he had sex with this girl and after he told him that, I saw my crush look over at that girl and then at his friend and smirked at his friend.

he checked the girl out after his friend told him. Why did he check her out and then smirk? What was he thinking when he did that? Does he think she’s hot?

I asked a few of my co workers and the male manager how there Christmas was and I mentioned to the manager that I celebrated Christmas on Christmas Eve due to my mom having to work on Christmas Day and he asked “what does your mom do?” I said “she’s a respiratory therapist at the local hospital and she gets to hangout with the babies and he said “awwww” I also mentioned that my birthday was a few days after and he said “happy late birthday”

Seems like girls with makeup get a lot more guys though most guys say they like all natural.. what do u think?

A friend has asked me this. He's straight but I think a bit curious and he's kinda cute. Is it a good idea? How far should I take it?

He was into bigger girls and my friend was very very skinny. She was tiny

But he said it looked like she’d been working out and she had really skinny legs.

He’s a bum guy and my friend has no bum whatsoever then he said don’t need it all.

He also said it’s weird when girls are 5 foot and under but he likes it. She’s basically the same height as me.

He could have easily been able to get my friend rather than me but never tried with her ever. I also snooped his messages and when his friend talked about my friend being attractive he doesn’t join in and doesn’t seem to want to.

He only talks about me in these conversations.

He told me he could appreciate my friend was attractive like he could many girls but he personally didn’t find her good or want to date her. I was his type because I had a bum and facially.

But then he’s turned around and said he doesn’t think I have a big bum now and it’s just proportionally big on me but it’s not a big bum. It’s a nice shape and a good bum but not big. (Even tho everyone tells me I have a big bum, he always tries to bring me down). He said it’s 100% a fat bum but it’s not big. It is just fat and very big for on me.

Was he into my friend or am I overthinking

I have a boyfriend and he does this, and it makes me very uncomfortable. She has very rotten teeth and her breath smells like a dumpster. And he thinks it’s funny and tries to kiss me right after, I find it rather disgusting and make him go wash his face if he’s trying to kiss me, am I over reacting?

Attractive guy that I connected on linked in with some years ago has started over the last few months, viewing my profile a lot. Sometimes daily. He asked for my number from a mutual friend and messaged because I was poorly, that’s it. He doesn’t message on my phone but is still checking out my LinkedIn profile. When we first connected we sent a few messages which were totally work related but he has recently split with his long term girlfriend. I fancy him but don’t want to look silly if I reach out and get rejected! Why view my profile so often, which I can obviously see but not message? Shy maybe?