Most women (and many men) have stretchmarks, whether very light or dark, so you'll have to get used to them if you'd like to have a relationship with a woman.
Stretch Mark's aren't disgusting sir, and if you plan on having a wife and a family, I'd suggest perhaps changing your mentality, because when a woman gets pregnant lots of women get stretch Mark's. Sorry, but its life, and no man or woman is perfect.
@Warmapplecrumble yea! Cause its natural! I gained some weight and got them. I'm not fat either. It's just my body has never been this size and it freaked out and was like "what do we do?" So my stomach said "streeeetch" and that's how I got stretch marks lol!
@Warmapplecrumble when I gained this weight, my chest grew too (obviously lol) and so I probably have some subtle stretch Mark's there. But on my tummy they are pinkish reddish lol. I dont think have any on my rear though lol. But, that's cool. Hehe.
That's your choice and you are entitled to make your own decisions. But I'm just saying, most men and women will have at least one at some point in their life, just being realistic. Besides, shouldn't you want to date a girl because you love her and care deeply for her? Would you avoid a sweet and loving woman just because she had a stretch mark? If so, I'm sorry for all the wonderful things you will miss hon.
Standards? Are you sure it isn't a check list honey? I mean, what about personality, intellect, and so on. You know you are going to age right, and so will she? You are going to get wrinkles, you may get a couple of stretch marks over time, and wouldn't you want someone to still love and care about you regardless of how you look? I can guarantee you sweetheart, if someone leaves you based on your looks or you leave them because they aren't physically perfect, it isn't love darlin'.
Haha your funny. Will you answer my questions? It's your choice, you don't have to, and you can adhere to those standards but you will be disappointed when you start to get old if you don't like imperfections of any nature.
But my point is, shouldn't you base your relationships on love and not just physical requirements? And honey, it goes faster than you think. Ten years ago you were 13.. now your a man. Tommorow? And old man. It goes by quick. It's your choice. But I hope you dont have any regrets in the end and miss out on a deep, special, and meaningful relationship because of physical factors. At the end of the day, looks are secondary. What does it matter if a woman meets all your physical requirements but behaves rudely, inconsiderately, and just uses you? What benefit is there in that. If you dont care, all I can say is, enjoy.
You say that now because we are young, but I hope you dont regret it. And personality is better than just looks, because they fade. Have a blessed day nevertheless. Bye.
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I see what you’re saying, I still like the way my body looks though.
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I kind of thought that this was obvious.
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stretch marks are disgusting.
Most women (and many men) have stretchmarks, whether very light or dark, so you'll have to get used to them if you'd like to have a relationship with a woman.
@Hannah591 thank god my excuses never had one and my future girlfriend won't have one either thats for sure
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Most people have stretch marks from gaining and/or losing weight. I have some on my arms from working out and stretching the skin
Stretch Mark's aren't disgusting sir, and if you plan on having a wife and a family, I'd suggest perhaps changing your mentality, because when a woman gets pregnant lots of women get stretch Mark's. Sorry, but its life, and no man or woman is perfect.
@Bensbrie my husband has stretch marks and he's always maintained same weight and is slim
I have tons of stretch marks
@Warmapplecrumble yea! Cause its natural! I gained some weight and got them. I'm not fat either. It's just my body has never been this size and it freaked out and was like "what do we do?" So my stomach said "streeeetch" and that's how I got stretch marks lol!
@Bensbrie I have so many on my arms and breasts and ass llol
@Warmapplecrumble when I gained this weight, my chest grew too (obviously lol) and so I probably have some subtle stretch Mark's there. But on my tummy they are pinkish reddish lol. I dont think have any on my rear though lol. But, that's cool. Hehe.
@Bensbrie not planning to have kids so, AND NOT PLANNING to date women with stretch marks , end of story.
Lol no human exists without stretch marks I bet you have them behind your hairy ass.
@Warmapplecrumble u wish i had some,
That's your choice and you are entitled to make your own decisions. But I'm just saying, most men and women will have at least one at some point in their life, just being realistic. Besides, shouldn't you want to date a girl because you love her and care deeply for her? Would you avoid a sweet and loving woman just because she had a stretch mark? If so, I'm sorry for all the wonderful things you will miss hon.
@Bensbrie i have standards, i date women with no stretch marks, slim , above 5"4, feminine.
Standards? Are you sure it isn't a check list honey? I mean, what about personality, intellect, and so on. You know you are going to age right, and so will she? You are going to get wrinkles, you may get a couple of stretch marks over time, and wouldn't you want someone to still love and care about you regardless of how you look? I can guarantee you sweetheart, if someone leaves you based on your looks or you leave them because they aren't physically perfect, it isn't love darlin'.
@Bensbrie nope not check list sweety, STANDARDS, end of story.
Haha your funny. Will you answer my questions? It's your choice, you don't have to, and you can adhere to those standards but you will be disappointed when you start to get old if you don't like imperfections of any nature.
@Bensbrie long long way to go before im old :)))))
But my point is, shouldn't you base your relationships on love and not just physical requirements? And honey, it goes faster than you think. Ten years ago you were 13.. now your a man. Tommorow? And old man. It goes by quick. It's your choice. But I hope you dont have any regrets in the end and miss out on a deep, special, and meaningful relationship because of physical factors. At the end of the day, looks are secondary. What does it matter if a woman meets all your physical requirements but behaves rudely, inconsiderately, and just uses you? What benefit is there in that. If you dont care, all I can say is, enjoy.
@Bensbrie long long time to go b4 im old darling, and looks> personality
You say that now because we are young, but I hope you dont regret it. And personality is better than just looks, because they fade. Have a blessed day nevertheless. Bye.
@Bensbrie looks is better than personality, have a nice day!
One day you will get old, look will fade.
@Smiley_face101 I agree.
one day aka long long long way to go, end of story.