Guys/Girls? would you or wouldn't you?

[Anonymous]

would you date someone who cuts regularly?

Yes, i would support them with whatever they are going through

No, i can't handle that

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+1 y

this is kinda the reaction i have got... my boyfriend is okay with it kinda he just gets upset and worried.

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+1 y

its interesting to see that girls would be happy to date them but boys can't handle it...

[relahvent]

Well I'm currently in a relationship with someone who has an eating disorder but I didn't find out until I had already fallen for her, so it was a little to late to turn back. However if I had known about it ahead of time I probably wouldn't have pursued her because mental instability really doesn't make for a healthy relationship. People don't realize that when someone self harms, if has a devastating affect on the people around them and not just the one doing the harming. It's so frustrating to watch someone you love slowly destroying themselves.

[bifriend2013]

I guess there is some kind of stress that causes girls to cut themselves. I met a girl one time, she was hot, and liked me, but I would not sleep with her because I was afraid I would wake with her cutting on me because she said she didn't know why she did it, so there were too many unknowns about her

[CMar007]

I would try to help them any way I could especially if I really liked them but it would worry me that they aren't stable and probably wouldn't date them

[Red_Dragon]

I don't think I'd date someone like that, but I would try to help someone who cuts regularly. If we were already dating and I found out then I wouldn't break up with her.

[TheEnding]

I doubt I would start dating someone who cuts regularly. But if I was already dating her and I found out she did, I wouldn't leave because of it. I'd try to help her out of that.

[Asker]

i think that this is a good outlook to have on it

[lordAlex818]

Instability is kind of... scary to me. I wouldn't be able to.

[Asker]

this is generally what i find people think... i have a boyfriend now... he hasn't left yet but he gets upset and frustrated when i cut

[greycadillacs]

No, I wouldn't if they had no interest in stopping or getting help.