My new girlfriend has only dated well built guys? How do I get a better upper body?

[Anonymous]

My new girlfriend has only dated well built guys in the past (army build) and I feel pretty inaduate compared to them, I am skinny and my upper body is weak, my lower are better built most. I'm concerned when we have sex she won't be super into it as my upper buddy isn't great. I'd like to be better for her so any advice on getting my upper body looking good without going to the gym?

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For the record I have weights at home

[Paris13]

Buying weights and lifting with these with your own ease will help. And along with this, maybe buying some Milky Power Drinks here, dear.
However, she has chosen you and cares about You unconditionally or else... She would have stayed with the other Muscular men.
Always remember, as you work yourself out trying to please her: Beauty is skin deep and a beautiful personality Highlights More in store. You have what it takes so as you hold your weights high... Hold your head even Higher.
Good luck. xx

[Asker]

Thanks I know she likes me for me I'd like to feel good about my body too you know :)

[Paris13]

So welcome... Oh, of course, I can understand this... Good to know that while you are trying to please her, you are also in it for you. xx

[JulyAndrews]

You need to go to the gym if you want to increase body mass, because you need to start working out with weights. Or do you have dumbbells at home?

[Asker]

I have dumbells at home yeah

[JulyAndrews]

Here's a link that will help you: www.mensfitness.com/.../best-upper-body-workout

Men's fitness is a great website so venture there.

[Asker]

Thanks :)

[Kenzy-Yinn]

I wish I could help you man... but pull ups and certain kind of pushups seem to work, but don't ask me which

[KDA20]

She obviously like you for other reasons, be happy with that.

[Asker]

yeah but If you can fix something why not give it ago, I'm not going anywhere cuz I don't compare in that respect I know personality wise I'm way ahead of them but i'd like to feel good about my body as well

[KDA20]

Good plan

[Klaatu51]

don't do it for yer girlfriend bro... it's not good ;)

[SamA_nold]

Home workout videos? Insanity is a good one for quick results. You could also do something like 60 sit ups/crunches along with 60 push ups a day, and then work your way up in numbers as you improve. I would really recommend the latter though.

[Anonymous]

You can't get built without the gym unless you have a bench and rack, you're probably not carrying enough mass for push ups and pull ups to do anything.

[apexalpha]

Don't change for her do it for yourself

[kaybay]

Swimming helps

[Anonymous]

She seems rather shallow, isn't she?

[Asker]

Not at all, she says she doesn't care, its more me wanting to feel good about myself cuz her ex's make me feel kinda shit about my body

[Opinion Owner]

I just think you're in over your head with this one. I mean if she only dates buff guys, why put yourself through that