How to regain my confidence?

[Anonymous]

I'm on the slimmer/athletic side and I never had any problem with that. My boyfriend always said he loved my body and I was very confident. Thing is we broke up recently and he started saying really mean stuff about my breasts, always implying that I'm flat-chested (saying his current gf's boobs are much bigger than mine and other things). Now I feel completely unattractive and insecure. How can I feel confident again?

[TheFangirl]

You just need to remember the fact that you are f*cking beautiful. He is just jealous that his girlfriend isn't as good as you were, or he is jealous that you moved on. He is jealous about something, so he tries to make you feel as bad as he does. Maybe he wants you back, but doesn't think you will go for it, so he is mad and is trying to get back at you. Remember the fact that he loved your body while he was with you, so he obviously liked you, and just got jealous of something, and wanted to make you feel bad too.

[Asker]

Wow I think you're right... He admitted trying to make me jealous and bringing me down the other day, but he says that he doesn't know why

[TheFangirl]

He probably just wants you back, but doesn't know it, or is confused why. Don't let him bring you down, he wouldn't have said he loved your body before it he didn't.

[Anonymous]

Noooo please don't feel bad about yourself or unattractive! You're athletic and strong and healthy. Don't derive all your confidence from the opinions from one guy who's insulting you. in actually kinda jealous of you for being so athletic and I've always wanted a smaller chest haha. I'm sure you're beautiful and fine just as you are

[Asker]

Hahaha and I'm a bit jealous of you! He has this weird obsession with Sofia Vergara (I'm sort of latina too) so I keep googling her to see how gorgeous she is and how her body is amazing :'( I'm pathetic hahahaha
Thanks for the support!

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome!:)

You're not pathetic at all!! Haha I google gorgeous looking celebs too to see how I compare lol. I'm sure plenty of other guys will consider you and your body just as amazing 👍🏻

[Opinion Owner]

To feel confident again just remind yourself you're attractive. Even if you just find one thing to compliment yourself on every day and act with purpose, and smile, the confident feeling will kick in again soon enough.

[Asker]

That's a great idea!

[LeedsDude]

Get your tots out we will cheer you up! Only joking do not do that.
confidence is in the mind he's trying to hurt you plain and simple most men like breasts but size isn't really important my partner is about 34c and they may not be the biggest but I'm still with her years later and will be for as long as she's daft enough to have me.

I've dated people with all kinds of sizes and it's the person behind them not the bra size.
Anything above a handful and that's all you need.

[Jersey1]

He wants you to feel that way. If he didn't like your breasts he wouldn't have dated you to begin with, he is just being mean and hurtful on purpose. He sounds a bit immature. Buy some clothes that make you feel good and forget about him. Write him off.

[DavidNYY]

why u give a fuck what ya ex thinks? he's gone for a reason, nigga just wants to bring u down

[Asker]

Because he's the one who made me have any self-confidence at all. Now it feels like it was all lies and that I'm actually a piece of shit.

[DavidNYY]

shiit they probably were lies

[Not_Helping]

*poof* You now have your confidence! :D

[Asker]

thanks! :D :D :D