In American ONLY this body is considered hot. Harsh truth is you have to have the bone structure, genes, wide shoulders, square jawline in order to look hot. If you are a guy on this site please understand that your WIFE or GIRLFRIEND doesn't love your weak body. She is just settling for you because she can't do better. The movie Captain America taught me that if you're a scrawny ugly short loser nobody likes you as a man. It was ONLY when he got is height, muscle and superpowers did the world take notice to him. Other men respect men that are big and powerful. Superman is only loved for is masculinity, his power, height and strength. When you think about it he has a boring personality, but when like the alpha male traits of him. So women don't care what your personality is as long as you are Alpha, powerful and dominant.
Any other men given up in life because they can't get the ideal body?
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I think you are half right.
I think in the U. S. there really is this insane image coming out of hollywood on what 'hot' bodies are. I find I'll watch shows from say the U. K., and there are people who are in decent but normal-decent shape and fairly cute and people on the show want to fuck them and it all seems pretty believable. U. S. stuff, the average 'dork' still has hints of a 6-pack and the 'average girls' are still smokingly hot, just less hot than the girls who are supposed to be 'hot'. Guys look at pics of girls who are pretty hot online and act like they're average, and girls look at guys who probably do workout and say things like 'try going to the gym' as if another 40 lbs of muscle is just a few curls away and 8% body fat comes from eating a little less junk food.
And I think that really does contribute to americans leading the world (who is not far behind) in obesity. The media does push this extremely high bar for attractiveness and people feel they can't meet it but ice cream and burgers and wings love them and they eat their sorrows away.
The thing is... it's bullshit. The media standard is bullshit. The fussiness people exhibit online is bullshit. A girl with an average face who is in decent, not perfect shape, in a bodycon dress in heels with some makeup has guys drooling and desperate to get with her. A guy in -pretty good shape? Hell, I used to post pics here, I don't look anything like that, on a good day I'm skinny and a bit toned, a -bit-. And when I posted, I'd get girls -I- considered hot texting how hot they thought I looked. Yeah, sure some vague median figure, you need to look like that to stand out.
Real life? You have a decent personality, flirt a bit, groom, and look a little bit hot, people will be all over it.
If it's that important in your eyes, just work hard and work out. It's not that difficult, it's not rocket science. It's just about perseverance. By complaining you show that you lack that and it couldn't have been that important to you in the first place.
First of all, I wouldn’t be attracted to guy as muscular as them. Too much muscle can be a turn-off. Second, do you know what women have to put up with? We’re expected to be skinny but with big butt and boobs and the boobs must be perky with small areolae and we must have a small nose, long legs, thigh gap, we’re expected to shave every single part of our bodies. We have a lot more standards to meet than men do. But if it’s fake, we’re also criticised.
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